Ok so first I know I did the number 1 no-no. We are 22 months into recovery and FWH has been doing everything he can to help me through this nightmare. OW attempts contact every couple of months and he always ignores (last contact was 13 months ago when he accidentally answered his cell out in the field.....and didn't recognize her voice & had to ask twice who it was!). Anyway it's been a long stretch of 4 months since she last sent a text and I have had it. We decided to respond by him typing "I don't know how to be more clear. Fuck off". To this she immediately called and I answered (couldn't help it.....I called shortly after Dday and she promptly got off the phone.) so when I answered i told her my husband would never take a call from her....she asked what my problem was? I told her my problem was her fucking my husband a couple of years ago and she can't let it go. Her response.....yeah, so...what is your problem?
At that point I hung up realizing she would never get it.....no morals....no remorse. She is going to pursue my husband until she finds another man to focus her crazy on. I'm not looking for any advice, just venting