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Default  Posted: 2:57 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I went crazy tonight had argument and it spiraled into me search for the OW I haven't found her but I contacted all the sorority presidents at her school letting them know why I was lookin for her . She can be kicked out of her sorority for promiscuity so as if now I got one response saying they don't have her in their group but will help with the search . I can't physically do anything to her though I wish in could but I'm not to ruin her now . I hope they kick her out once she is found and I plan on letting her parents know just what their little girl does at school . I'm on a man hunt and I'm seeing red !

Am I afraid she will tell me something else ehhhhh hey all truth is nasty and sure she could lie but the way I see it is I want her done . I'll be the worst thing that ever happened to her ill spend all my energy making her miserable every guy he meets will know of this and everyone she knows will know . I hate her ! I hate them at my WH made me this person .... I know ppl will say don't waste time on her but I have nothing else better to do .



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
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Default  Posted: 3:16 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gently here, I feel your pain. Its ok to be angry you have been so very hurt and betrayed. I don't know that you will get the satisfaction that you hope from these actions though.

Is she really anything more than a hole that gave shallow validation to your WH?

If it helps I refer/referred to all my Xs OW as the 'current vagina' that's all they really are and were. Nothing more. Nameless, faceless, interchangeable holes. They could have been any trashy whore who was there at that time.

(((huRtZ413))) everything about this shit sucks.

Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

Posts: 759 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
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Member # 29130
Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You do have something better to do. Focus on you and your kiddos

Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and DSs all under 10
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

Posts: 4722 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Back home again in Indiana
♀ 29912
Member # 29912
Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand you wanting payback.... BUT is your H doing anything to help you heal???

To this day I occasionally fantasize about revenge, but in the end HE is the one who made the commitment to you, not the OW.....Though I admit if the opportunity FELL into my lap for some payback I certainly wouldn't look the other way

I truly hope you are still moving forward with some healthy healing and he is a part of helping you.

Posts: 1308 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still lost
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