Gently here, I feel your pain. Its ok to be angry you have been so very hurt and betrayed. I don't know that you will get the satisfaction that you hope from these actions though.
Is she really anything more than a hole that gave shallow validation to your WH?
If it helps I refer/referred to all my Xs OW as the 'current vagina' that's all they really are and were. Nothing more. Nameless, faceless, interchangeable holes. They could have been any trashy whore who was there at that time.
(((huRtZ413))) everything about this shit sucks. Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou