If you don't mind here's some things I've written. There's no way he would let me speak to the psychologist alone.
It upsets me to think that after having the resource of a psychologist, that he would not of been honest and brought this up to you. (The obsessive looking at girls)
I would like to acknowledge that the abusive cycle seems to of ended but I am unsure if I'm supposed to be wary of this reoccurring at a later date
This is also the same with cheating as I believe there are many steps taken before the cheating occurs which is looking obsessively at women we know
In regards to coping mechanisms I am unhappy that he doesn't seem to be doing his recommended two journals a day.
In light of this how do you think he's progressing?