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User Topic: My own feet were a trigger???
♀ 39058
Member # 39058
DOH!  Posted: 5:34 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah I know.... wtf???

It was fleeting and I spose I could have laughed at myself (well I have since).

To put in context, it's been very hot here in the UK (yeah, it doesn't happen often and boy do we talk about it when it does!!) and WH and I were laying on the sofa watching TV with bare feet. I happened to glance down and saw that my feet (with beautifully painted nail polish I might add!) were kind of intertwined with his and, bugger me, it set my mind racing!!! Imagining his feet with hers !!

Well, I'm over it now - didn't mention it to WH - I mean what can he do about my feet??

Anyhow - thought I'd just share and hope this doesn't trigger anyone else!

Me: BW 45
Him: WH 48
Married: 6 years, together 9 years
D-day: 3 January 2013 - he confessed.
A: June-Dec 2012
No children.

Posts: 153 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
♀ 39602
Member # 39602
Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That happens to me pretty much everytime we're together. I can't even drink or eat out of the same plate or with things he's used because I think he might have shared that intimacy with OW.

Posts: 38 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 28156
Member # 28156
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My feet too. But it involved my feet. OW sat by me when I was in the middle of my detective search. ANd she sat up and stared at my thighs and then my feet in sandals.??????? Very obviously. It bothered me then and still does. I am in shape. I noticed later our spa certificates were missing. I believe he gave them to her. I believe she got a pedicure and wondered how often I had the pleasure of the same. He must give them to me always. No.....they were a gift for my daughter. I have never found those certificates.

a trigger yesterday

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