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ProbableIceCream posted 7/17/2013 09:55 AM

The divorce is final. No spousal support. I waived about $80 a month in child support because at the moment it would be a hardship (this can change later). XWW was extremely cooperative.. give her some points for that. She accepted everything I suggested (that I considered fair). Only asked me to change one small thing while we were talking about it.

I have ~79% custody and final say in legal decisions according to our current parenting plan (but we're required to discuss major decisions). The plan will be renegotiated in 6 months.

No spousal support. We keep whatever property we have in our separate accounts and in our physical possession. We are responsible for our own student loans.

lostmommy posted 7/17/2013 10:11 AM

Congratulations!

Chrysalis123 posted 7/17/2013 10:45 AM

Congrats!!!

Amazonia posted 7/17/2013 11:50 AM

Congrats!!

Who would have been paying spousal and child support to whom?

tesla posted 7/17/2013 12:01 PM

Sounds like how things fell out for me too.

So how are you feeling?

Ann124 posted 7/17/2013 13:28 PM

Glad to hear that everything went as well as they could!

nowiknow23 posted 7/17/2013 13:57 PM

Sounds like things went as well as one could expect. How are you doing?

devistatedmom posted 7/17/2013 15:44 PM

Congrats on having that done PIC. Hope you are doing ok today.

h0peless posted 7/17/2013 15:46 PM

Congrats!

[This message edited by h0peless at 3:46 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]

ProbableIceCream posted 7/17/2013 16:07 PM

I would potentially have had to pay spousal support to her, since I make several times as much as she does. Calculated child support was her paying me $80 a month but I requested that it be reduced to $0 for the time being since she makes almost no money.

I'm doing OK I guess. I feel a little shocked. Maybe like things are more open now, I'm more independent. A little sad maybe. Mostly I just have a sense of lots of things changing, which can be a little bewildering.

Including the car thing. Researching a good used car for around $6k takes a lot of work.

nowiknow23 posted 7/17/2013 16:09 PM

((((Probable))))

tryingagain74 posted 7/17/2013 16:12 PM

Congrats. Do something nice for yourself-- you don't need to "celebrate," but you are starting a NB. I hope you can mark it by doing something more fun than used car research.

gma56 posted 7/17/2013 16:26 PM

BREATHE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's such a relief after the shit storm of D/S.

Now it will be time to make short and long term goals for your future.
Congrats and welcome to your NB.
Gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 4:27 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)]

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