There is a madhatter thread in the I Can relate forum. Madhatter is a term we call members who wear both the BS and the WS hat.
Are the two of you in MC? IC? Are you both NC with the AP's?
Have you both been tested for STD's?
Are you both transparent? Each of you has the others passwords to all online accounts and cell phones?
Are you talking about it? Do you each answer the other's questions without blame or defensiveness?
Welcome to SI. You will find a lot of support here.
M: June 2001
Status: Reconciled. Love my "new" husband!
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.