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Tripletrouble (original poster member #39169) posted at 9:38 PM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013
Yesterday was a great day - my best since d day late April. "I love him, he loves me, he is doing all the right things.....". I got through IC without crying. Then like a lightening bolt last night "What an asshat. Hid money from me to pay for a service to advertise himself as sexually available and enjoyed all vermin imaginable". Not surprisingly today was bad and I was useless at work, again (I hate not being at my best at work). I was feeling extremely exasperated by the stupid roller coaster when it hit me that yesterday my heart carried the day, and today my mind carried the day. That, I suppose, is what the roller coaster is all about for me - the battle between heart and mind.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 11:00 PM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013
Wait...
Help me understand - he was advertising yesterday?
If so, there is no R. It is a farce. A lie. He is trying to snow you to lead his dual life.
I don't want to comment further until I understand if this IS the case.
Stand tall. Don't be an option.
(((Hugs)))
Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for
Tripletrouble (original poster member #39169) posted at 11:13 PM on Wednesday, July 17th, 2013
Oh no. The advertising ended d day.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
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