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Topic: Pinning down that stinking rollercoaster

Tripletrouble
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Posted: 3:38 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013

Yesterday was a great day - my best since d day late April. "I love him, he loves me, he is doing all the right things.....". I got through IC without crying. Then like a lightening bolt last night "What an asshat. Hid money from me to pay for a service to advertise himself as sexually available and enjoyed all vermin imaginable". Not surprisingly today was bad and I was useless at work, again (I hate not being at my best at work). I was feeling extremely exasperated by the stupid roller coaster when it hit me that yesterday my heart carried the day, and today my mind carried the day. That, I suppose, is what the roller coaster is all about for me - the battle between heart and mind.

40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller

Posts: 646 | Registered: May 2013

1Faith
♀ 38975
Member # 38975

Posted: 5:00 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013

Wait...

Help me understand - he was advertising yesterday?

If so, there is no R. It is a farce. A lie. He is trying to snow you to lead his dual life.

I don't want to comment further until I understand if this IS the case.

Stand tall. Don't be an option.

(((Hugs)))

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1433 | Registered: Apr 2013

Tripletrouble
♀ 39169
Member # 39169

Posted: 5:13 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013

Oh no. The advertising ended d day.

40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller

Posts: 646 | Registered: May 2013

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