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User Topic: She texted him!!!!!!
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Member # 39313
Angry  Posted: 4:43 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She texted him once after Sadat and he responded. I was pissed.
Today she texted him. Wtf? What part of nc don't you get? It was about work which she could have gotten the info from someone else.
His heart sank when he got it. He showed it to me and asked what to do. I told him crickets. He was like " I just want this to be gone. I never want to hear from her again. "

I was kind instead of shouting at him for being stupid enough to cheat with a co worker.

I want to punch her.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 363 | Registered: May 2013
♀ 18429
Member # 18429
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you both responded perfectly! A united team, that is how you will both get through this. Great job not yelling at him for something out of his control!

DDay - Dec '07
Me - BS
Him - turns out he's a SAWH
Us - ?????
May 18, 2010 - I forgave him fully!
D-day 2 July 4, 2015, status unknown right now, working on things but not holding my breath

Posts: 3928 | Registered: Feb 2008
♀ 38975
Member # 38975
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have him text her with you standing beside him saying " I cannot converse with you at all any longer. If it is work related please seek direction from -------. I am committed to making my marriage work and you and I can not have any further contact. Please respect my decision and my marriage"

If she doesn't he can go to HR or you can consider a RO.

Stand tall. United - fight for your marriage

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1641 | Registered: Apr 2013
♀ 39476
Member # 39476
Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, July 17th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You two are doing the right thing; be a united front. By operating from different corners the AP was able to divide you.

Hank in there.

ME Doing Better
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 24 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years

Both feet pointed forward; positive

Posts: 508 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Inner Peace
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