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cuppacoffee posted 7/17/2013 16:43 PM

She texted him once after Sadat and he responded. I was pissed.
Today she texted him. Wtf? What part of nc don't you get? It was about work which she could have gotten the info from someone else.
His heart sank when he got it. He showed it to me and asked what to do. I told him crickets. He was like " I just want this to be gone. I never want to hear from her again. "

I was kind instead of shouting at him for being stupid enough to cheat with a co worker.

I want to punch her.
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doesitgetbetter posted 7/17/2013 16:48 PM

I think you both responded perfectly! A united team, that is how you will both get through this. Great job not yelling at him for something out of his control!

1Faith posted 7/17/2013 16:52 PM

Have him text her with you standing beside him saying " I cannot converse with you at all any longer. If it is work related please seek direction from -------. I am committed to making my marriage work and you and I can not have any further contact. Please respect my decision and my marriage"

If she doesn't he can go to HR or you can consider a RO.

Stand tall. United - fight for your marriage

TheBestMe posted 7/17/2013 16:59 PM

You two are doing the right thing; be a united front. By operating from different corners the AP was able to divide you.

Hank in there.

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