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rn_6609 posted 7/18/2013 19:29 PM

My son got married this weekend. There was a lot of anxiety over me seeing my XH with OW. She didn't come. She said she would be uncomfortable....hahaha...duh!

My dil and I are coming off the elevator...there is a man standing to get on. He said "hi"...we said "hi' and walked on. When we got to the parking lot my dil asked if I felt awkward...I said why?? She said that was XH...holy crap I didn't even recognize him!!! All gray and old looking :)

Next we go to pictures...I sought out ex and told him I didn't recognize him or I would have visited...we made comfortable small talk about the kids and grand daughter.

At the wedding...XH sat by himself...I sat with my SO. At the reception...XH stood in the back...Me, SO, family and friends have a great time dancing and playing around.

Next day I get an email from XH...says he had a "WOW" moment...said I have never, ever looked happier and he just knows he has never made me that happy. He was glad to see me.

That my friends is VINDICATION....yes I looked happy...yes I had on a smoking hot black dress...yes I am fun. Sad moment for him.

I almost feel sorry...I had my wow moment over 5 years ago when I caught him with her. Sucks to be him right now!

newnormal posted 7/18/2013 19:45 PM

I didn't even recognize him!!! All gray and old looking :)

Smoking black dress

You go girlfriend!

traicionada posted 7/18/2013 19:59 PM

That's the best revenge of all: happiness. Nothing drives people crazier than seeing someone have a good life

hurtbs posted 7/18/2013 20:01 PM

Awesome! I love reading posts like this!!

Housefulloflove posted 7/18/2013 20:06 PM

Dang! That is a heck of a downhill slide if he is unrecognizable just 5 years later!

Yay on having your moment! How much better off he would have been if he wasn't such a sad POS who ruined all of his blessings!

hurtinky posted 7/18/2013 20:15 PM

Sucks to be him!!

GabyBaby posted 7/18/2013 20:18 PM

Love it, Hot Mama!!!

jo2love posted 7/18/2013 20:18 PM

That rocks, rn! Love it.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 8:19 PM, July 18th (Thursday)]

She11ybeanz posted 7/18/2013 21:10 PM

That's freakin awesome! You go girl!!! I hope I have a moment like this one day!!!

phmh posted 7/18/2013 21:29 PM

Great post -- and congrats to your son!

inhishands55 posted 7/18/2013 23:37 PM

WoW glad you had that moment...I had mine several months back when I had to deliver a message to the ex...He looked so bad and could hardly stand up straight...

I thought if he lives to see his next birthday that would surprise me...Well, he had his birthday on the 4th and I think he is still around..

Congrats on your moment and too new Beginnings.....

FaithFool posted 7/19/2013 00:31 AM

Bazingah!

Sad in AZ posted 7/19/2013 05:32 AM

Congratulations on your son's wedding and your moment!! It's such a good feeling

Confused1829 posted 7/19/2013 08:08 AM

This is the best thing I have read all day!

He was unrecognizable after just 5 years? hahaha.

It is amazing. The opposite of love is indifference - you are totally there and loving YOUR life completely!

Awesome, I'm glad you had a great time and you had a moment! Keep living it girl

luvbug0915 posted 7/19/2013 10:14 AM

Oh your story gives me such hope!
This is EXACTLY what I'm wishing for when I run into my XH and OW in October when I attend my step son's wedding with my SO.

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