OK, I have posted a lot about my MIL, and I dislike her. ;-)
But this is an actual question. Not sure what to do...
Mil is always cooking. Its her thing.
This trip, she hasn't cooked. I didn't notice, but my wh did say, ma, where's all the sausage and peppers, the meatballs, where is it??
The first she ordered a pizza, then we went to IHOP in the morning. Second day she took her other grandchild shopping around dinner, they went to a restaurant, and didn't tell us. After waiting for them (we didn't know where they were). Wh went out and got mcdonalds.
Yesterday my dd wanted to go to red lobster. So we took mil out to lunch there.
At 6 my kids were hungry, so I made them grilled cheese. I felt weird making myself food in mils kitchen, when she was there, so I sort of waited for her to leave, which she wouldn't.
By 8 30 I was starving, and told wh I needed to go get something. There was no veggies, very little food in the house. I ended up eating a peanut butter sandwich.
Now, my stomach is starting to get upset because of all the fast food and no veggies.
Is it rude to go out and buy food for us? Is it rude for me to use mil kitchen when she is there?
Also, what's the norm in ur family... Does the host usually make food or do you go and make it yourself? I feel like a brat saying someone else should make me food Lol, but I feel rude making myself at home in someones kitchen