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stungbytravel posted 7/19/2013 07:54 AM

WH and I have been separated about a month. We have not spoken in about two weeks. I have not tried to contact him and have gotten nothing much from him.

Recently, my stepdaughter's summer school grades came in the mail. They are addressed to WH. She is living with him right now. She has been anxiously awaiting there arrival. Her and I still talk occasionally, so I texted her they were here. She wanted me to open them but I refused and sent WH a message telling him the grades were here and did he want me to open them or something else. I got back crickets. No response.

What the heck? I do not understand this. I feel bad for my stepdaughter because she doesn't know what she got in her class. She said the final was a large part of her grade and it could go either way.

Is it normal for the WS to just ignore the BS?

Take2 posted 7/19/2013 08:09 AM

Normal...WS... in the same sentence. Hmmm. Mine did for weeks at a time over the course of several years.

So this is addressed to WS? I'd coordinate with SD and bring it to her, so she can run out the car and grab it. She gets her grade - you stay incommunicado with WS. I'm sure she'd appreciate the effort.

[This message edited by Take2 at 8:10 AM, July 19th (Friday)]

stungbytravel posted 7/19/2013 08:12 AM

Yes it is addressed to WH. My stepdaughter has lied about her grades in the past and I believe this is why he gets them via mail.

devistatedmom posted 7/19/2013 08:16 AM

He's trying to show you who's boss by not answering. Duh idiot. That would be fine if you were texting asking how was his day, but not about something like his D's marks.

Since he doesn't want to answer, AND because this envelope involves your SD, I would just text him back saying you are dropping the envelope off at xxx location (his mom's? Sisters? Best friend?0 because SD needs her marks.

If the envelope was something just for him, even if it were important and he ignored my text telling him it was here? I'd let it sit there for a week or two, then send it back to the sender.