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hexed posted 7/19/2013 10:04 AM

Just a reminder to the newer folks in NB -- its the actions that matter not the words.

My SO, fondly known as TG, continues to remind me of that. We have both been travelling 5 dasy a week for work for a while now. My schedule is more flexible than his. I have often gone out of my way so we could see each other for 'date nights' at various places around the country. In relationships, I've always been the one to do things like that...giving a bit too much effort w/o reciprocation.

Well his travel schedule just changed a lot. He's flying in tonight so we can have a date night. He's going out of his way to make time for me. He tells me all the time how important I am to him but this is just one of many ways he shows me. It was a lovely surprise this morning to find out he's coming here tonight.

Just remember talking isn't acting. 3 years into our relationship, this matters just as much as it did on day 1.

veelop5 posted 7/19/2013 10:32 AM

Hexed...you always give me hope!!! I am so so happy for you!!! Enjoy your time together...

wonderingbull posted 7/19/2013 12:27 PM

SoHappyNow posted 7/19/2013 12:47 PM

Yay!!!!

hexed posted 7/19/2013 12:51 PM

I'm feeling extra gushy b/c I found a note I put in his luggage two years ago that says "i love you and can't wait to see you" on the fridge yesterday when I was getting ready to leave. He knows what to do for sure.

Amazonia posted 7/19/2013 13:46 PM

aww!

You guys have such a great relationship. I really appreciate you posting about the ups and downs and getting to see healthy in action, hexed.

FaithFool posted 7/19/2013 18:04 PM

Williesmom posted 7/19/2013 18:36 PM

MyVoice posted 7/20/2013 02:04 AM

Actions not words, actions not words , actions not words... right now I just need to remember to remember that!

I'm so happy for you what a gorgeous thing for him to still have that note and put it on the fridge

dindy posted 7/20/2013 05:45 AM

I'm really happy for you hexed and your post gives me hope that one day I will meet someone special who can show actions and not just say useless words!

:)

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