Hello, my WW had an EA with a single male. I found out about a month ago when "he said I don't think your husband would approve."
Anyhow made some demands, and wife is following all - NC, email PW, phone, she is going to counselling today.
As well I purchased the book "Not just friends" and last night she read it for an hour. We talked after and she said that she really thinks the book is going to help her understand what she did, why she did it and red flags and warnings so it won't happen in the future. She explained that she was happy in the quiz that she scored low on the EA vs friendship. She is sorry she hurt me. Glad that the other male had stopped her. That she previously would not have thought an EA was in the cards because she was not interested sexually. She also is so sorry she hurt me but thinks the book will give her strategies and will be a great thing for us to both read and talk about.
So as she was saying all that I was getting weird feelings. Maybe part of me thinks that she is using the book to figure out what I need so she can "fake" what I need to hear.
Did anyone have a similar experience. Any ideas why I might jump to her faking her efforts and interest in the book?