Oh, here is another one. A couple of years ago I discovered kayaking and loved it. A friend of mine has kayaks in our local harbor and so we would go out and kayak. I would ask XH to join, my friend would have been happy to lend us the kayaks but he would tell me that kayaking was boring and that paddle boarding was the 'in' thing. Even in Bora Bora, where we had glass bottom kayaks and could watch the fish swim by as we were leisurely gliding through the water, he was not interested.
Guess who just came back from a kayaking trip?
Do people really change that much or did he just not want to do things because I liked them?
I will never, ever, ever put up with a partner like that again. I put so many of my interests on the backburner for him and now he goes and rubs it in my face and on top of that, tells the kids that I was the one who would not want to do stuff?
[This message edited by fraeuken at 8:13 PM, July 19th (Friday)]