Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying



Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library


Contact Us
In Association with
Infidelity -
- Forum Archives

like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
Newest Member: Hopeless07 (61511)

User Topic: P&S signed finally
♀ 3903
Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feeling some sadness. Sure to be expected. I have lived in this home since 1989. Brought babies home plus all the birthdays and holidays!

I am happy to be moving on but damn ...

Anyone deal with these mixed emotions?
How did you deal with it?

There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
After litigation, lawyers and courtrooms, I went back to school and recieved my Masters in Conflict Resolution. Now a Mediator helping people avoid what I went through!

Posts: 2114 | Registered: Mar 2004
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shoot, we only had the House of Pain for a year and a half but I had to take Ativan the day I handed over the keys.

It sucks but it gets better.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 20700 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's another grieving process, rising. Just like so many others we've walked through in this whole crapfest, you just have to walk through the sadness, sit with the memories and loss, and then keep moving toward the future. And yes, it sucks.


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

Posts: 40247 | Registered: Aug 2011
♂ 32380
Member # 32380
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I felt similar when I had to sign over the quit claim deed to exWW. I built the house for us and raised our son there. I worked so hard to put us in a place to be able to buy such a home. A lot of sacrifice. But I was the one kicked out...and I didn't do anything. I hate going over there now. I stay in the car when picking my son up. I won't even go to the front door because I don't want to look inside nor see her. I even hate that my old neighbors might see me driving up. Like some kind of loser that caused all this.

BS(me) 50
WW 49
1 son 17 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley

Posts: 1636 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Zombie Land
Topic Posts: 4

Return to Forum This Topic is Archived
© 2002 - 2017 All Rights Reserved.