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risingfromashes (original poster member #3903) posted at 2:13 AM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
Feeling some sadness. Sure to be expected. I have lived in this home since 1989. Brought babies home plus all the birthdays and holidays!
I am happy to be moving on but damn ...
Anyone deal with these mixed emotions?
How did you deal with it?
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:51 AM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
Shoot, we only had the House of Pain for a year and a half but I had to take Ativan the day I handed over the keys.
It sucks but it gets better.
(((rfa)))
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:53 AM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
It's another grieving process, rising. Just like so many others we've walked through in this whole crapfest, you just have to walk through the sadness, sit with the memories and loss, and then keep moving toward the future. And yes, it sucks.
((((rising))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
SeanFLA ( member #32380) posted at 2:36 PM on Saturday, July 20th, 2013
I felt similar when I had to sign over the quit claim deed to exWW. I built the house for us and raised our son there. I worked so hard to put us in a place to be able to buy such a home. A lot of sacrifice. But I was the one kicked out...and I didn't do anything. I hate going over there now. I stay in the car when picking my son up. I won't even go to the front door because I don't want to look inside nor see her. I even hate that my old neighbors might see me driving up. Like some kind of loser that caused all this.
BS(me) 53
WW 52
1 son 20 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley
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