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Khloe_2011
♀ 34467
Member # 34467 |  Posted: 8:15 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013 |     |
I looked at my phone bill and noticed my H has been receiving random text messages (he is texting back) from out of state numbers. Like 5 different area codes the same number never shows up twice in a given month. Any advice on what i should do? I was thinking of just asking him but i am afraid it might be a dealbreaker.
Madhatter FWW (Me): 28
Madhatter FBH-29
T-12yrs M-8
D-day(s)- Mine Dec 2010, His Feb 2011
Wh broke nc and called her March 2011, june 2011 and Nov 2013. Wh saw her and broke nc May 2012
Beautiful son 2 and daughter 5 months
working on R, but ba
Posts: 92 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
RedRose
♀ 39584
Member # 39584 | | Posted: 8:22 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013 | |
Can you google the numbers first and find out who they belong to? We recently began receiving calls from the area code where the OW lives. I googled them, expecting they were from her, and they turned out to be known telemarketing numbers. It may be worth looking before confronting him.
BW-35
WH - 35
2.5 year LTA
Posts: 160 | Registered: Jun 2013 |
Khloe_2011
♀ 34467
Member # 34467 | | Posted: 9:17 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013 | |
Thanks. I did try that and got nothing. I know he knows the person because he was sending the person picture/video messages. Just so flustered. Just been through a lot with having a 2month preemie baby and dealing with postpardum. Sux
Madhatter FWW (Me): 28
Madhatter FBH-29
T-12yrs M-8
D-day(s)- Mine Dec 2010, His Feb 2011
Wh broke nc and called her March 2011, june 2011 and Nov 2013. Wh saw her and broke nc May 2012
Beautiful son 2 and daughter 5 months
working on R, but ba
Posts: 92 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
Lostinthismess
♀ 39210
Member # 39210 | | Posted: 11:22 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013 | |
Our phone bill will show video/pic to numbers that none were sent too. I thought it was just WH and was flipping out and I compared to my number and saw it did the same for me. I have no idea why or what it is, but I know who I have sent pics to obviously. We have Verizon if that matters at all. Ask him, and ask to see his phone. If he isn't hiding anything he won't care to show you. [This message edited by Lostinthismess at 11:22 PM, July 19th (Friday)]
'You just keep living, until you are alive again'
'I don't want perfect, I want honest'
Posts: 343 | Registered: May 2013 |
Beautifulmind
♂ 38361
Member # 38361 | | Posted: 4:17 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Khloe..... I sent you a PM that might help
Me - MH (41) Her - MH (41)
DS's - 11,8,5
Her DD 10-4-14, Mine 8-28-12
Posts: 39 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Midwest |
RedRose
♀ 39584
Member # 39584 | | Posted: 4:10 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013 | |
When I googled a number Friday night, a service ad popped up. For 95 cents, I could have them look up the number and tell me who it belonged to. Best 95 cents I spent, as sure enough the number belonged to the OW.
BW-35
WH - 35
2.5 year LTA
Posts: 160 | Registered: Jun 2013 |
womaninflux
♀ 39667
Member # 39667 | | Posted: 4:29 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013 | |
That sucks. Time for plan B (or is it C?).
BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"
Posts: 915 | Registered: Jun 2013 |
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