And tonight, my mother. We were talking about something completely unrelated to the A's that has got me raging mad at a family friend. My always wise mother said these two things:
She can't go back and redo...only deal with this a day at a time. I am sure that if she knew then what she knows now she would do differently.
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Just perspective, honey....looking forward instead of back.
If anyone had mentioned these to me 6 months ago, I probably would have ripped their head off. I think they are exactly what I needed to hear at this point. Last night about healing me, tonight about helping to heal our marriage. Hope this upswing lasts a bit.
