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Anger stage & mind movies...I am 1.5yrs out. Does time heal or when time goes by it doesn't hurt & sting so bad.
Do you keep looking at your spouse with disguise? When they get caught,why all of a sudden they don't want to cheat anymore? Sometimes I look @ him & say to myself...Why don't you just go live with her,you couldn't stop talking to her off & on for 10 yrs. LTA's E/P are hard to get over,that's for sure Off the subject I went into the store where he bought his 3pk of Trojan condoms. I thought how could you go through with it....made my stomach turn. I could never of done this to him...EVER.

(((petite71)))

I think the healing time depends on how much work he is doing to fix himself and help you heal.

Thanks hardtimesinlife: I see changes in him,but I have a huge wall up. I am scared to take the wall down & get myself back. I may not want him...I don't know if that make sense to all of you.