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User Topic: Time Goes By So Slowly
petite71
♀ 36475
Member # 36475
Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anger stage & mind movies...I am 1.5yrs out. Does time heal or when time goes by it doesn't hurt & sting so bad.
Do you keep looking at your spouse with disguise? When they get caught,why all of a sudden they don't want to cheat anymore? Sometimes I look @ him & say to myself...Why don't you just go live with her,you couldn't stop talking to her off & on for 10 yrs. LTA's E/P are hard to get over,that's for sure Off the subject I went into the store where he bought his 3pk of Trojan condoms. I thought how could you go through with it....made my stomach turn. I could never of done this to him...EVER.


1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
BS(me):41
WS(Husband):40
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr

Posts: 126 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
hardtimesinlife
♀ 10468
Member # 10468
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((petite71)))

I think the healing time depends on how much work he is doing to fix himself and help you heal.


Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6176 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
petite71
♀ 36475
Member # 36475
Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks hardtimesinlife: I see changes in him,but I have a huge wall up. I am scared to take the wall down & get myself back. I may not want him...I don't know if that make sense to all of you.


1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
BS(me):41
WS(Husband):40
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr

Posts: 126 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
Topic Posts: 3

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