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♀ 25690
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

July 14th was the four year mark
And I didn't even notice until just now.
It was a non day

Maybe I am making my way down the road of healing a little further

Still hitting speed bumps but much smoother sailing

Wishing everyone peace

D-Day July 14, 2009
4 kids
BW, 41
D and healing, one day at a time

Posts: 1067 | Registered: Sep 2009
♀ 31528
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful. I'm so glad to hear this.

Posts: 50938 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome!
Happy healing hun.

5 kids 18-28
Married 26 years-together 30
Dday1-late June 2011
Dday2-early July 2011-TT
Dday3- early August 2011-TT
Another affair 7 years before.
R going well

Posts: 309 | Registered: May 2012 | From: yoshi7268
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have lived my wish...that on Oct 29, 2013 I wake up and breeze through the day without even thinking about it.

Since I have spent every single day since 2010 thinking about it, I doubt my wish will come true.

I do believe that, although I will think about it, it won't matter.

Continued success in your healing.

ME: 57 BS
HIM: 64 WH
Married: 32 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 6 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

Posts: 2441 | Registered: Nov 2011
♀ 36634
Member # 36634
Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This gives us all a little hope for the future.

[This message edited by lilflower1000 at 5:57 PM, July 20th (Saturday)]

Me: 48 BS
Married 16
True R: 12/2012
4kids(16, 13, 10, 5)+ 2 grown Step kids I love like my own

Posts: 344 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Georgia
♀ 17185
Member # 17185
Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your post prompted me to check the date I found out. Today will be exactly six years. Every once in a whilte, it feels like it happened just yeterday.

I don't feel bad. The past few years I didn't even notice.

I didn't notice back in June that it would have been our 14th anniversary.

I'm happy mostly, but I am still trying to reach some goals. I will.

"To keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear."

Posts: 682 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: southeast
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