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tesla posted 7/21/2013 09:57 AM

Received this text last night:

What time you plan on picking Teslet up?

The same time I pick him up after every visitation: Sunday at 6...moron.

Me: 6

***crickets***

This morning at 6:30 a.m.

It's my grandmas birthday tomorrow and I'd really like teslet to be there but it's going to go a little late. You think I could keep him another night? I'll drop him off with you whenever is good on Monday...???

And do I get any more weeks with him this summer or are we back on weekends?

When does he go back to school. I'll get you his tuition and extra for clothes and soccder, etc out of my next paycheck.

CHECK THE FUCKING GOOGLE CALENDAR!!!! Stop asking me when shit is happening. The shit is listed on the fucking calendar. Stop telling me that you are *going* to give me money and just pay your goddamn part. I haven't gotten a fucking penny from you in the last 7 months unless I've gone through my attorney. Actions, idiot are all that fucking count.
And no. You cannot keep him another night on 12 hours notice. I know you received an invitation to this party in advance. So, that would mean, you take 5 minutes, consult the google fucking calendar, think to yourself, "why ex-shat, grandma's party runs past my visitation time, I should probably arrange with my cold-hearted, suicide-inducing, bitch of an ex-wife to keep Teslet an extra night in advance." Oh, and then you have to actually perform the ACTION!!!! Not good enought to just think it in your head and let your jedi fucking mind powers do the rest.
And stop putting multiple question marks in your texts. They do not count as a 'pretty please with a cherry on top'.
Oh...and no more extra weeks. You have to schedule those by the end of April. Summer is just about over and I have a vacation planned with Teslet. If you would consult the google fucking calendar, you would see, there actually aren't any 'weeks' left. Oh and plus you had to schedule BY THE END OF APRIL!

Fucking hell. How are you so stupid now? Taking illiteracy and entitlement lessons from stripper whore? I do not have to be accomodating of your inability to plan past your next blow job. I am not going to be fooled by you dangling Teslet's tuition in front of me so that you can get an extra night with him. You are required to pay that tuition. Fuck you.

My response:
"I can pick him up at 8:30 tonight (if you like, i can pick him up from a different location if that makes it easier.) But we have stuff going on tomorrow. It's too late to schedule additional summer visitation. Check your guidelines, if I remember correctly, it is to be scheduled before the end of April. School registration is 8 August. Your half of tuition is $X. I will email you the school calendar when I receive it."

I have received crickets from him. No confirmation of pick up time. I'll give him a little longer but then I'm going to have to have a confirmed pick up time. Because I swear to god, if I am at the apt and my son is not there...I will become a crazy woman.

[This message edited by tesla at 9:59 AM, July 21st (Sunday)]

h0peless posted 7/21/2013 10:22 AM

It's all a bunch of pathetic, passive aggressive shit but you already knew that. If you don't let Teslet go to his grandma's birthday party or let him have him for another week, you're being mean, never mind the fact that he has access to the paperwork and the calendar. If you say "no", he gets to turn you into the bad guy and that's a lot of fun!

As far as the money thing goes, he probably actually means it when he says it and because of that,, he gets to feel like a pretty great guy. I guess it's sort of like another form of cake; he gets to feel like he is a stand up guy without actually being one.

Take2 posted 7/21/2013 10:25 AM

Tes, I'll give you a FTG as soon as I stop laughing and clean up the computer screen:

I do not have to be accomodating of your inability to plan past your next blow job.

Nice Rant! Personally I am very impressed that you are currently sane.

F.T.G!

Amazonia posted 7/21/2013 10:26 AM

FTG.

And yes, you are 100% in the right. IMO, you're being overly gracious in even extending to 8:30 (what time does teslet go to bed?) and going out of your way to meet him somewhere else.

Beyond posted 7/21/2013 10:30 AM

Why even write him at all? Can't you just use Jedi mind tricks to communicate?!

Seriously, though...he fired you from the position of administrative assistant. Google Calendar is his new admin. He should get to know her.

Oh, and..."Yay, me! I'm planning to pay Tesla what I OWE HER. I'm a great guy."

Finally, as you requested:

F.T.G.!!!

IrishLass518 posted 7/21/2013 11:08 AM

This is a "You play nice and I'll play nice" text. You let him have Teslet one more night and he will pay what he is obligated too without you having to call the attorney. He is just so sweet
FTG!!!!

nowiknow23 posted 7/21/2013 11:25 AM

How awesome would it be to have three canned responses you could send back to him?

No. Google Calendar.
No. Guidelines.
No. Lawyer.

And for some of the more intense periods of cluelessness, you could combine couple.

No. Guidelines and Lawyer.

Oh - and FTG

myperfectlife posted 7/21/2013 12:07 PM

I do not have to be accomodating of your inability to plan past your next blow job

Yeah...FTG. What a Moron.

Coraline posted 7/21/2013 12:13 PM

Yes, FTG!

FaithFool posted 7/21/2013 12:31 PM

What NIK said.

and FTG! Moron.

DeadMumWalking posted 7/21/2013 12:41 PM

What a fucking moron ASSHOLE!!!!!

Gimme an F!
Gimme a T!
Gimme a G!

What's it spell??

FTG!!!!!!

dmari posted 7/21/2013 12:46 PM

You have the best rants ever!! Thank goodness I wasn't drinking my morning coffee when I read it otherwise it would be all over my computer!!

Oh tesla ... I am so sorry he is such an idiot. He is hoping you will respond in however way you would have responded when you were together. He still wants you to "fix" everything. Hang in there girl!!

dmari posted 7/21/2013 12:46 PM

I forgot to add ...
FTG
FTG
absolutely FTG!

devistatedmom posted 7/21/2013 12:56 PM

FTG. Nothing else needs to be said.

ButterflyGirl posted 7/21/2013 14:14 PM

FTG!!!!

You are amazing Tesla. Screw him and his stupid games.

I agree with NIK.

No. Google calendar.
No. Guidelines.
No. Lawyer.

This asshole does NOT deserve a cookie for doing WHAT HE IS SUPPOSED TO DO.

And I totally get you about hearing what he is *going* to do. I get that all the time. Just fucking do it already!!!

I also get, I was *going* to do it if you just hadn't <xyz>.

FUCK THESE GUYS!!!

nutmegkitty posted 7/21/2013 16:38 PM

FTG, big time.

tesla posted 7/21/2013 16:38 PM

I texted this guy a few hours ago asking him to please confirm that I am picking Teslet up at 8:30 at either his place or a different location.

I have heard nothing back.

Grace and Flowers posted 7/21/2013 16:50 PM

Oh, goody. I have not come to the party too late to say

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
GGGGGGGGGGGGGG!

I'm sorry he's making things so difficult. I hope things tonight end up ok.

(((((tesla)))))

Nature_Girl posted 7/21/2013 16:58 PM

Good grief. ftg

Williesmom posted 7/21/2013 17:43 PM

FTg

Jagoff.