Now if you had a paid membership, and you contacted someone, does it tell you they are unpaid member? I guess what is the point of paying, if you find someone, email them, and you don't know if they can respond (paid) or not (unpaid).
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
In my opinion, when you are ready to date, paying for a membership make sense.
Paid OkC gives you the ability to browse invisibly, better match tools, etc. Emails/IM's are included for both. I'm pretty sold on the site, as it seems pretty well done, and the general quality of the ladies I have been interacting with is high.
*edit added the word "day"*
[This message edited by Shockleader at 7:50 PM, July 21st (Sunday)]
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