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User Topic: Ouch! T.M.I! Ladies Only, Please (mojo request)
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please send mojo, prayers, whatever you have.

I have Mastitis and will be seeing a surgeon in two days, if it isn't dramatically better. I HATE going under and I HATE being cut.

This is a chronic issue stemming from an autoimmune disorder. I've had the surgery before- about three years ago and I DON'T want to have to do it again. It took me the better part of a year to heal from that. (That's a year of dealing with oozing and dressings and staining everything I have- again!) The pain and recovery time will be far less if it starts to resolve in the next couple of days.

And DD's 14th birthday is on Sat. So, I really don't want to be laid up post-surgery and miss celebrating with her.

Any spare mojo you might have would be greatly appreciated.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tiky)))

Sending mojo.


Posts: 47239 | Registered: Mar 2011
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of mojo.

I hope it gets better so you don't have to have the surgery.


Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.

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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had mastitis once from breast feeding. OUCH is right!

You have been prayed for and will continue to be in my prayers.

(((TIKY)))


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1770 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TIKY)))

Mojo mojo mojo


Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 25682 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TIKY)))

Sending mojo your way.




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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, y'all!

Pain meds are kicking in, so I'm feeling a little better and a little worse. My pain has eased, but my brain seems to have taken a vacation. In the space where it once resided, there's nothing but dizziness. I think I need to nap a little and sleep this off, a bit.


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willow60
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots of mojo, TIKY.

Feel better soon.


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

Posts: 961 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel better soon. That's no fun at all. Are you seeing a general surgeon, if so I would strongly recommend a breast surgeon. I would also ask about negative pressure wound therapy. That's an extremely long time to deal with a wound and dressing changes.

Mojo prayers and healing thoughts headed your way.

[This message edited by tushnurse at 4:55 PM, July 21st (Sunday)]


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 11901 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo on its way


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6687 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo, mojo, MOJO!!!


Me - 44
DD(23), DS(20, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, the antibiotics seem to be working- inflammation is down today. My stomach is NOT happy with the antibiotics. I was up all night trying not to barf. It doesn't help that the pain meds make me really dizzy and I hate that, too.

It's a little early to say this, but I'm thinking I won't be having surgery this week. I probably will soon, though, because the problem keeps coming back.

Once I'm off of these meds, I'm going to try turmeric because I've heard a LOT of great things about it and it has helped a lot of people like me. I just can't stomach it right now with these other meds.

Thanks for all of the mojo!! It seems to be working!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK. MAYBE I can avoid surgery this week while we wait and see how much the antibiotics help. I'm still in a bit of pain and the inflammation seems to be at a stand-still. I hope not. Trying to stay away from the pain meds because they make me feel really icky. So do the antibiotics, but I have no choice but to take those.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you tried cherry juice too? It's supposed to be a really good anti-inflammatory. Good luck.


Hallelujah! Holy Shit! Where's the tylenol?

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Try ginger (yogi makes a really nice ginger lemon tea) for the nausea. I drink a few cups of it a day whenever I'm on antibiotics.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!!!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cherry juice? I had never heard of using that- or maybe I HAD, but just didn't realize it. My grandmother had Lupus and would always put it in milkshakes (YUM!).

I'm doing better with the nausea. I find that peppermint works really well for me with nausea.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued healing mojo heading your way.


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane


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