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User Topic: Ouch! T.M.I! Ladies Only, Please (mojo request)
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please send mojo, prayers, whatever you have.

I have Mastitis and will be seeing a surgeon in two days, if it isn't dramatically better. I HATE going under and I HATE being cut.

This is a chronic issue stemming from an autoimmune disorder. I've had the surgery before- about three years ago and I DON'T want to have to do it again. It took me the better part of a year to heal from that. (That's a year of dealing with oozing and dressings and staining everything I have- again!) The pain and recovery time will be far less if it starts to resolve in the next couple of days.

And DD's 14th birthday is on Sat. So, I really don't want to be laid up post-surgery and miss celebrating with her.

Any spare mojo you might have would be greatly appreciated.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tiky)))

Sending mojo.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of mojo.

I hope it gets better so you don't have to have the surgery.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had mastitis once from breast feeding. OUCH is right!

You have been prayed for and will continue to be in my prayers.

(((TIKY)))


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

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Posts: 1525 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TIKY)))

Mojo mojo mojo


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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Posts: 24751 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TIKY)))

Sending mojo your way.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, y'all!

Pain meds are kicking in, so I'm feeling a little better and a little worse. My pain has eased, but my brain seems to have taken a vacation. In the space where it once resided, there's nothing but dizziness. I think I need to nap a little and sleep this off, a bit.


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willow60
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots of mojo, TIKY.

Feel better soon.


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel better soon. That's no fun at all. Are you seeing a general surgeon, if so I would strongly recommend a breast surgeon. I would also ask about negative pressure wound therapy. That's an extremely long time to deal with a wound and dressing changes.

Mojo prayers and healing thoughts headed your way.

[This message edited by tushnurse at 4:55 PM, July 21st (Sunday)]


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
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Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
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Posts: 8899 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo on its way


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo, mojo, MOJO!!!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, the antibiotics seem to be working- inflammation is down today. My stomach is NOT happy with the antibiotics. I was up all night trying not to barf. It doesn't help that the pain meds make me really dizzy and I hate that, too.

It's a little early to say this, but I'm thinking I won't be having surgery this week. I probably will soon, though, because the problem keeps coming back.

Once I'm off of these meds, I'm going to try turmeric because I've heard a LOT of great things about it and it has helped a lot of people like me. I just can't stomach it right now with these other meds.

Thanks for all of the mojo!! It seems to be working!


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK. MAYBE I can avoid surgery this week while we wait and see how much the antibiotics help. I'm still in a bit of pain and the inflammation seems to be at a stand-still. I hope not. Trying to stay away from the pain meds because they make me feel really icky. So do the antibiotics, but I have no choice but to take those.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:16 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you tried cherry juice too? It's supposed to be a really good anti-inflammatory. Good luck.


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Try ginger (yogi makes a really nice ginger lemon tea) for the nausea. I drink a few cups of it a day whenever I'm on antibiotics.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!!!


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It is what it is.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cherry juice? I had never heard of using that- or maybe I HAD, but just didn't realize it. My grandmother had Lupus and would always put it in milkshakes (YUM!).

I'm doing better with the nausea. I find that peppermint works really well for me with nausea.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued healing mojo heading your way.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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