[This message edited by tennispro at 8:14 PM, July 21st (Sunday)]
Hugs to you tennispro.
LA
Something similar happened when my XWH said he was going to call my parents and tell them stupid stuff about me. I told him YEAH! You go right ahead and go and knock on my father's door and tell him to his face what you have done to our family!
STBX also ran into my parents briefly in the street and said quite breezily 'hi, how are you?!'. My dad just kept walking and my mum just sneered lol.
The arrogance!
Respond: My Dad said you should come say hello in person so he can kick your ass to the curb.
I would drop the "to the curb."
I suppose that some of my nieces and nephews don't know all of the details of the end of our marriage, and might not find it completely bizarre to get a, "Uncle Trac-Fone says hi." But I think even they might find it odd that I would be the one delivering the message.
He is with OW but can still be a good guy and wish your Dad well.
EGO + JUSTIFICATION for his actions = BS Affair.
I would reply my Dad isn't interested in hearing from the person to promise to love and cherish me but is incapable of doing either.
Good luck. Keep moving.
(((hugs)))
