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User Topic: Anniversary Card
♀ 38537
Member # 38537
Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is WH's and my 7th anniversary. I got him a non-mushy card in honor of the occasion.

Now I'm stuck on what to write in it. What I'd really like to write is "Please don't run over me with your affair bus and back up to finish the job again".

What did you write in your anniversary cards post dday?

Me - 40
WH - 41
Dday - Oct 7, 2012
Dday 2 - June 4, 2013
Married - 8 years
2 daughters, 9 years old and 5 month old

Posts: 152 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada
♀ 36711
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't buy one. Didn't acknowledge the day. Neither did WH.

D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
♀ 37575
Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We didn't do cards this year either, just didn't have the words.
However I liked your thoughts, could you attach them to a toy bus?!
Good luck with whatever you do! Try to plan a day that works for both of you!

Me: BW Him: FWH in our 50's
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas

Posts: 700 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
♀ 38765
Member # 38765
Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Considering you just went through another DDAy Im surprised you bothered. I think that I would simply put my name. Nothing more. Kind of a ... I know what day it is, here you go. No loves hugs n kissed just a you married me on this day so here is a card bc we both know it means crap at the moment. My anniversary is on the 29th and our last OW issue was May 23. He planned a weekend trip...Im not getting him a thing. He owes me huge for waiting around the last year!

Hugs to you on what I know is a hard day.

Posts: 304 | Registered: Mar 2013
Topic Posts: 4

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