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Pringle (original poster new member #39708) posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, July 22nd, 2013
Me: BFiance 30
WFiance 33
DD 15.03.2013
In limbo
soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 10:46 PM on Monday, July 22nd, 2013
((Pringles))'
I wish I had words to help.
You've been heard.
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
laney57 ( member #35617) posted at 10:34 AM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013
We know and understand... Hugs to youw
Update 01/21/17
Me - BS, 46
Him - WH, 48
Married - 23 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me still
Separated 03/2014 (he moved out of state for job)
Tried and tried and failed long distance 09/2015
Have no idea
Violetta ( member #39749) posted at 4:15 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013
Oh, honey, I know.
My WH is ready to throw it all away for a woman who, while attractive, can't tell the truth to save her life and clearly has no compunction about breaking up a marriage of 10 years and three kids.
Like someone told me in another thread, it's like it's not even him – it's like an alien wearing the body of your partner.
I so desperately wish there was someway we could just force them to open their eyes and see what they were doing. Keep doing the 180, though. While I don't know if it had much of an effect on my WH, it's certainly given me a lot more confidence and a better attitude. Are there any local activities you can get involved in? Sports? Book clubs?
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41, BS, divorced four years
“Learn your way around loneliness. Make a map of it. Sit with it, for once in your life. Welcome to the human experience.”
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