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Topic: Help me decipher this please

Helen of Troy
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Posted: 5:35 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

The state department of revenue helps me collect CS owed. He's messed up amounts, is late, on and on. When I logged on today to check for updates it says recent actions taken and lists 'confiscation of lottery winnings'. Does this mean he won the lottery or is this just standard language? How come if it's just wording, it doesn't say seizure of income tax refund or other sanctions they normally use.

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Helen of Troy
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Posted: 5:36 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

I meant to add that I checked this state's winners and neighboring state's winners and his name is not there as of today.

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devistatedmom
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Posted: 5:37 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

If it says that, I'd think he won something! I hope it was big! and he loses it all to you! LOL

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

devistatedmom
♀ 24961
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Posted: 5:38 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

hmm...just saw your second post...I don't know...I'd call them and ask, personally

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

Reality
♀ 39077
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Posted: 5:41 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

Ooh, how cool would that be? Yes, when the state is facilitating CS, they do monthly checks for assets not previously known. If they find one, they can/will confiscate it and put the value towards arrears.

I see that statement every month, that the state is looking for more assets to seize. Arrears today = $86K. I've never seen them find anything for us, but if they are being specific with verbiage, I would say he won something.

I hope it's BIG money.

Posts: 292 | Registered: Apr 2013

SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229

Posted: 5:55 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

We don't have that service here but I suspect it is ANY Lottery monies so it could be $20 or it could be $20m.

I'm rooting for $86k!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Tearsoflove
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Posted: 6:16 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

It would have to be an amount that requires reporting and does not pay out in cash at the store level. How nice for him that he gets some of his child support paid without having to actually work for it.

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

Posts: 4380 | Registered: Sep 2005

devistatedmom
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Posted: 6:21 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

True tearsoflove...but I'm going to hold on to how much it would burn a deadbeat parent to NOT get the money in their pocket!

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

peridot
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Posted: 6:24 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

Here in my state if the lottery winnings is over $600 you have to report it.

Hope all his winnings go to you.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

Posts: 4829 | Registered: Feb 2008

Tearsoflove
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Posted: 7:15 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

I agree devastated but I think any lottery proceeds the kids get should be extra toward their education and he should still owe the original amount minus the buck or two he paid for the ticket...

"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson

Posts: 4380 | Registered: Sep 2005

devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961

Posted: 7:30 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013

I'd go for that tears! I like your thinking!

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

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