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User Topic: Dangit, I broke N/C with stbx and mow..
♀ 38377
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After an agreement 2 weeks ago that I could have DS6 tonight for 4 hours tonight for his birthday, POS starts telling me I have to change the dropoff location, and he will tell me where they are 30 minutes in advance. I tell him no, and I finally realize that he wants to be somewhere fun and make me look like the bad guy for dragging him away from it.

The emails veer off into glasses (which I already paid for and expect half of the expenses), and he refuses to pay for those and starts bringing up other shit. Numerous emails ensue, with me being reasonable and him completely lying.

Then the stupid MOW starts texting me sticking her nose where it doesn't fucking belong. I begin by telling her to stay out of it, but of course it turns into a cursing match..

We have court in 2 weeks, and I shouldn't have gotten into with MOW as they could bring up those texts in court, but that bitch has done nothing but lie to me, and she took part in the suspected abuse that I called DCF about. They are feeling all high and mighty that DCF dropped the case, and they think they have false allegation charges against me. Of course the bitch doesn't know this, but thankfully my lawyer had me video the kids admitting it all, so fuck them and their claims that I was just making up stories.. I even have POS admitting the toilet incident in texts, as well as numerous other emails and texts to where he admits to involving the kids..

I just shouldn't have even let the bitch get to me. That slut doesn't deserve my time.. Urgggg....

xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 13

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, from what you've described this only makes him and the hag sound bad, not you. His request was unreasonable and controlling. No doubt you should not have gone into a swearing match, but judges recognize that people are mere mortals and sometimes lose restraint when it comes to language. I think you're okay.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

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♀ 36434
Member # 36434
Default  Posted: 3:43 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't think it makes you look bad. It makes it look like she was trying to rile you up, and it worked. It's a net zero - not good or bad. No big deal, I don't think.

Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

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