I have been posting previously about the possibility of my husband and I separating. I have truly been agonizing over this because we have been married for 15 years and together 17. But the signs of cheating have always been there after I knew that he cheated once. I was never able to prove any others.
I went away to see my father who is very ill and we (husband and I) got separate phone plans. I told him that as of Aug 1, I was moving out. This has been a couple of months ago. He has asked me to be with him. Please don't do this. He is a changed man etc. He got arrested a year ago and now has a felony, that was kind of the last straw for me...but I have been so undecided. Now that we are down to the last couple of weeks, I have really been torn up about it. Just upset and not sure if it was right.
Well, got access to his old phone, which has only been turned off for a few days. I found a PHOTOS! Photos of a woman whom he claims was his counselor for multiple sclerosis support group. She has clothes on, but the photos are of her back side. She was posing to show her butt. I also got her phone number out of his phone. I am not sure if I want to call, because I simply just don't care. She can have him.
Additionally, There are other women in his phone log...one that I know he dated before me. AND another woman named...well, I suppose I shouldn't say. But he talks to her every day! I mean a lot!!!!!
I asked God to give me confirmation that I was doing the right thing...well I guess I got it....
Am I hurt?! NO! I think I can move on and have peace about this now. I feel relieved. Does he know that I have this info? NO. What is the point?
[This message edited by overcoming2003 at 10:57 PM, July 22nd (Monday)]