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User Topic: Mad hatter?
RedRaven6500
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Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am fairly new here and I am still getting used to all of the abbreviations, phrases and labels. I tried looking in the healing library, but didn't see a definition for the term "mad hatter". A little help?


BW: Me 43, WH: Him 43, Married: 23 years
DD: 21, DS: 20 both in college
DDay: 22 Oct 2011
Year PAs/EAs started: 2004, possibly 2003
OW: 3 serious long-distance PA/EA's, several casual PA's, some at the same time. Classy
In R

Posts: 135 | Registered: Jun 2013
hotcoffee
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Default  Posted: 6:06 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome. A mad hatter is a betrayed spouse who is also a wayward spouse.

Posts: 59 | Registered: Jun 2013
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just to add to hotcoffee's response- By SI definition it is a WS and a BS in the current relationship.


“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown

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RedRaven6500
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Member # 39626
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone! :)


BW: Me 43, WH: Him 43, Married: 23 years
DD: 21, DS: 20 both in college
DDay: 22 Oct 2011
Year PAs/EAs started: 2004, possibly 2003
OW: 3 serious long-distance PA/EA's, several casual PA's, some at the same time. Classy
In R

Posts: 135 | Registered: Jun 2013
Topic Posts: 4

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