Please don't let my son turn out like his father's family
Paternal great grandfather had affair with his wife's sister, this produced twins which the betrayed spouse raised, stories go that she was not a good mother to the twins, twins were boys,both twins cheated, one being paternal grandfather who cheated constantly, ended up marrying a married neighbor, one of the women that he was cheating with,it has been told to me that he used to come home and ask dumbass and his family if they liked the smell of the pussy on his face,divorce filed when maternal grandmother got caught with a 16 year old juvenile delinquent,dumbass was 10-12 at the time, she worked at the facility that the delinquent was locked up at, it was a creepy relationship if you ask me, she treated him like a house boy, dumbass has cheated on everyone he has ever been with, including the new one, she contacted me in September 2012 to cry about it, I never even knew who she was, she called the cops on him, then begged him to take her back
, dumbass has been with 4 different loves of his lives in the last 3 years,including the latest one
and they all overlap each other, yucky, at least the one thing that I can say is that he was single when I met him, oh and the family didn't divulge these secrets to me until after marriage, kids, many years
I at least got to be naive for a long time, this new one got into his email account in the summer of 2012, and found out that he continued to hook-up with women, men, and transvestites, oh and he liked lactating mother's if they would let him suckle, then he would go down on them, even if it was that time of month, but they had to wear a tampon, I am so thankful that I never knew that information until we had been separated over a year, and he was thousands of miles away, I don't care to know what all he did, I do know that when I caught him in 2007, our 12 year old daughter who was with me when I caught him said "well, at least it's the first whore that you caught him with" she knew because of the kids at school, we lived in a small town, I worked in a large city and commuted, he worked in the small town where the kids went to school, but to him he grew up with lousy morals, so it really was no big deal, I believe that my kids have far more information about dumbass's cheating, but I'll never ask them, I just encourage them to get counselling,
His family is actually a big train wreck, but they pretended like they were some high class group, once you got to see the inside, I didn't associate with them after I heard the stories and neither did I allow my kids,
Oh and maternal grandmother didn't know who her father was, her mother at 14 got pregnant by a US military guy that was stationed in her home town, maternal great grandmother after a couple years didn't want to raise maternal grandmother so she gave her to the family that had adopted maternal great grandmother when she was 2, maternal great grandmother was the product of an affair,
I hope both my kids turn out like my family, long history of great marriages, with no cheating that I am aware of, they did have way more exposure to my family thank god
edit- to fix the maternal paternal, I do get confused with dumbass's lineage
[This message edited by hemademesingle at 9:11 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)]