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I just need somewhere to vent.

You stupid piece of shit. I wish I had never met you. I wish I never had married you. Hell, I wish there was some way I could still have my kids and you not be their sperm donor. You don't deserve to be called their dad.

Just remember one day you will have to face these kids and explain your actions to them. Just know this, they aren't fooled any longer.

I wish you would drop dead so I don't have to deal with you anymore. I thought once you were out of their lives, you'd be out for good but no, I still have to deal with your sorry fucking no good ass.

It's bad enough you tried to get out of paying CS and SS but you haven't paid a fucking penny of any of the out of pocket expenses. Now the kids have no medical because of your sorry fucking ass.

They have medical issues that need to be treated but now it has to wait until I can get them on state covered insurance all because your a sorry, lazy, piece of shit ass.

Your a sorry excuse of human being. Your nothing more than a sperm donor because a parent would never do the things that you have done to these kids. You'll have to answer for everything you've done one day. Only it won't be me your answering to. It'll be your kids you never gave a damn about.

I hear you.

((hugs))

I'm sorry for your anger and hard times, Peridot.

FWIW, I went to the state social services the day after Peckerwood snuck out and within several weeks, DD and I were "emergencied in" to the state program. It meets basic care, but it does include the dentist.

I sent you a PM.

It's hard to process the amount of rage that comes when you realize that he/she isn't going to be a jerk to just you, but to your children.

Who does that? Ignore or abandon children? Not anyone with empathy. Not anyone that any of us would choose to be in a relationship with, to parent with.

I'm so sorry, Peridot. I was on state insurance for a couple years after my XWH quit his very high paying job. That meant no healthcare, no CS, no nothing. I decided to look at the dropping of each new "tether" of our dependence on him as a hard won victory - whether he chose it or we did.

It was painful and difficult, but reaped increasing benefits for us as time has gone on. Taking away the power - in any context - for him to negatively impact us was imperative.

Vent away. Better here than bashing against the wall of their indifference.

(((Peridot)))

Like what Reality said, Who does that? It's one thing to screw us up but to do that to YOUR OWN CHILDREN!! What is the matter with parents like this??? I am so sorry you are dealing with a complete asswipe. Sending you hugs and support, dmari

(((peridot)))

I get it.

FTG!!!!!!!!

I feel the exact same way

Ditto!

Word!

((((peridot))))

I could have written most of your post....

((((peridot & kids))))

((((peridot))))

I was able to get the kids signed up for insurance online. It starts today so I am set if there is any emergencies. Should get their medical cards in a few weeks. Thanks for all support.

FTG.

Glad you were able to get them insured so quickly.

What you wrote is exactly my not so distant future. I'm so sorry for us all.

It starts today

OMG - what a relief!

((peridot))

FTG!

FTG. I'm glad you were able to get them on state insurance so quickly.

It's hard to process the amount of rage that comes when you realize that he/she isn't going to be a jerk to just you, but to your children.

Word. Divorce sure does cure a shit husband problem but unfortunately not a shit father problem.

I'm so glad you sorted something out. I'm also so glad we have national healthcare in Australia!!

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 5:35 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]