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Topic: Stupid piece of shit
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peridot
♀ 18334
Member # 18334 |  Posted: 9:06 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 |     |
I just need somewhere to vent.
You stupid piece of shit. I wish I had never met you. I wish I never had married you. Hell, I wish there was some way I could still have my kids and you not be their sperm donor. You don't deserve to be called their dad.
Just remember one day you will have to face these kids and explain your actions to them. Just know this, they aren't fooled any longer.
I wish you would drop dead so I don't have to deal with you anymore. I thought once you were out of their lives, you'd be out for good but no, I still have to deal with your sorry fucking no good ass.
It's bad enough you tried to get out of paying CS and SS but you haven't paid a fucking penny of any of the out of pocket expenses. Now the kids have no medical because of your sorry fucking ass.
They have medical issues that need to be treated but now it has to wait until I can get them on state covered insurance all because your a sorry, lazy, piece of shit ass.
Your a sorry excuse of human being. Your nothing more than a sperm donor because a parent would never do the things that you have done to these kids. You'll have to answer for everything you've done one day. Only it won't be me your answering to. It'll be your kids you never gave a damn about.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Posts: 4829 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
chikastuff
♀ 35288
Member # 35288 | | Posted: 9:37 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Me- 32
Happily engaged and moving on
Posts: 382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: New England |
Ashland13
♀ 38378
Member # 38378 | | Posted: 9:44 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'm sorry for your anger and hard times, Peridot.
FWIW, I went to the state social services the day after Peckerwood snuck out and within several weeks, DD and I were "emergencied in" to the state program. It meets basic care, but it does include the dentist.
I sent you a PM.
Ashland 13
You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
Posts: 2509 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England |
Reality
♀ 39077
Member # 39077 | | Posted: 9:52 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
It's hard to process the amount of rage that comes when you realize that he/she isn't going to be a jerk to just you, but to your children.
Who does that? Ignore or abandon children? Not anyone with empathy. Not anyone that any of us would choose to be in a relationship with, to parent with.
I'm so sorry, Peridot. I was on state insurance for a couple years after my XWH quit his very high paying job. That meant no healthcare, no CS, no nothing. I decided to look at the dropping of each new "tether" of our dependence on him as a hard won victory - whether he chose it or we did.
It was painful and difficult, but reaped increasing benefits for us as time has gone on. Taking away the power - in any context - for him to negatively impact us was imperative.
Vent away. Better here than bashing against the wall of their indifference.
(((Peridot)))
Posts: 292 | Registered: Apr 2013 |
dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215 | | Posted: 12:46 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Like what Reality said, Who does that? It's one thing to screw us up but to do that to YOUR OWN CHILDREN!! What is the matter with parents like this??? I am so sorry you are dealing with a complete asswipe. Sending you hugs and support, dmari
Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 16
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."
Posts: 2459 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882 | | Posted: 1:16 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((peridot)))
I get it.
FTG!!!!!!!!
me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC
Divorced 1/17/2013
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2641 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA |
ideservebetter45
♀ 36951
Member # 36951 | | Posted: 1:36 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I feel the exact same way 
Posts: 163 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: ideservebetter45 |
Lola2kids
♀ 32789
Member # 32789 | | Posted: 1:47 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Ditto!
Word!
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
Posts: 1595 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada |
npain
♀ 33539
Member # 33539 | | Posted: 1:55 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
((((peridot))))
I could have written most of your post....
S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!
Posts: 515 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 2:06 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
((((peridot & kids))))
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28171 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Griefstricken25
♀ 29183
Member # 29183 | | Posted: 2:07 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
((((peridot))))
Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011
Posts: 2553 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place |
peridot
♀ 18334
Member # 18334 | | Posted: 4:42 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I was able to get the kids signed up for insurance online. It starts today so I am set if there is any emergencies. Should get their medical cards in a few weeks. Thanks for all support.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Posts: 4829 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 | | Posted: 9:20 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
FTG.
Glad you were able to get them insured so quickly.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4956 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
OldCow18
♀ 39670
Member # 39670 | | Posted: 9:23 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
What you wrote is exactly my not so distant future. I'm so sorry for us all.
Me, BW forty something, DD & DS,
Married to WH (49) 11 years, together 16
D-Day 6.8.13
Posts: 620 | Registered: Jun 2013 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 9:25 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
It starts today OMG - what a relief!
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28171 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 9:30 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 6044 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
Coraline
♀ 36434
Member # 36434 | | Posted: 2:02 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
FTG. I'm glad you were able to get them on state insurance so quickly.
Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.
Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012 |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 4:25 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
It's hard to process the amount of rage that comes when you realize that he/she isn't going to be a jerk to just you, but to your children.
Word. Divorce sure does cure a shit husband problem but unfortunately not a shit father problem.
I'm so glad you sorted something out. I'm also so glad we have national healthcare in Australia!! [This message edited by StrongButBroken at 5:35 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5840 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
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