Do you think this is true? This scares me to no end! We have three children and I would never leave them!!
I just don't even know how to respond to that. He always says sorry after but it's been said a couple of times.
Not suggesting you look into D at all, but this kind of game is very damaging emotionally.
ETA If you are truly in R, so is your comment. Work through the problem together!
[This message edited by 5454real at 11:27 AM, July 23rd (Tuesday)]
There may be an option for one of you to buy the other out; there may be benefits or drawbacks to one of you leaving before exclusive use is granted; there may be effects on custody if one of you leaves the children to move out. A lot of it is state specific law.
You're right, he caused this.
Copied off internet wisbar.org
See a lawyer first - you may be able to kick him out because you are the custodial parent. But you need to act before he does. Do it now.