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User Topic: Heh-heh! OW Couldn't Stay Away from FB
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And what it posted warms the cockles of my heart.

when you get to be in your 40's , don't work, don't do the bar scene you seem to loose touch with people. Even the ones you thought were your frineds seem to disappear. It really sucks. Lonelyness in an awful feeling that no one should ever have to deal with. All of you with your kids and grand kids should count yourself lucky that youll never know what it is to be left behind, not thought about.It hurts like hell. What hurts even worse is the "Friends" you did have blow you out the door when they run out of time for you, or your use has run out. The don't need sitters any more, bar buddies any more. Someone to take advantage of anymore because you finally said somethin. I guess when your usage has run out, so do you. — feeling happy.

Ummm, OW you're in your 50's. Surprise, its a liar!

So happy its so miserable. Yeah, OW, FWH used the shit out of you and when he was done, he was DONE!

OW did delete its FB page, but has put it up again. OW had posted this shortly before it deleted its page.

Sorry to unfriend you, am trying to grt off FB for good.

That wasn't directed at me, I am not a friend. But, OW couldn't bear to not see my page, methinks.

I should go post something sappy about dear FWH on FB.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 5:08 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I should go post something sappy about dear FWH on FB

Absolutely!!!!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3251 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about I say: I am so lucky to have a wonderful husband who proves to me every day how much he loves me. Add to that my three wonderful, amazing, loving children and two beautiful grandsons who are crazy about their Granga and I am one blessed woman.

Maybe it will go shoot itself then.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
2oldforthis
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe if she wasn't messing with OW's husbands, she could have a real relationship. Then she wouldn't be so lonely.

Sorry slutty Karma is a B#$ch


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


Posts: 1649 | Registered: Jun 2008
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW also posted one of those funny e-postcards on its page. It said:

child: Mommy? Does Barbie come with Ken?

Woman: No dear, she comes with G.I. Joe. She just fakes it with Ken.

I wonder if FWH was G.I. Joe or Ken?


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so lucky to have a wonderful husband who proves to me every day how much he loves me

I would say just that, along with a picture of the two of you hugging or kissing.

If it's going to shoot its' miserable self, make it a really good reason.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3251 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


OW also posted one of those funny e-postcards on its page. It said:
child: Mommy? Does Barbie come with Ken?

Woman: No dear, she comes with G.I. Joe. She just fakes it with Ken.

Wow. Just can't hide Klassy can you????


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2880 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
womaninflux
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is one of the times I am glad I don't have a FB account because I would have probably succumbed to the juvenile behavior and I really, really don't need to feed the sickness as our MC says.

I realize you have good reason to feel like sending a big "touché" her way, but please don't. It's not productive. Take the high road and don't stoop to her level.


BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

Posts: 910 | Registered: Jun 2013
Blobette
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SMS - idle curiosity - why (how) doesn't she work?


BS (me): 50
WS: 50
Married: 26 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1061 | Registered: Aug 2012
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Friends" you did have blow you out the door when they run out of time for you, or your use has run out.

Noooooo, "Friends" you did have blow you out the door when they realize what you are...a selfish, immoral, dishonest POS that thinks only of themselves.

I would bask in her misery.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2134 | Registered: Nov 2011
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Blobette ~ OW was in a pretty serious motorcycle accident in 2002. I don't know how "disabled" it is from the accident. It isn't an obvious (broke its leg, at the very least, and head injury, too) disability. It happened at the beginning of their physical cheating relationship. I believe OW used it to manipulate FWH to feel sorry for it.

Before I knew FWH cheated and that OW was OW, it called me on the phone and tried to befriend me. (FWH had ended the affair 5 years earlier.) Said it was a former employee of FWH's and was just wanting to catch up. The first thing it said to me was "Don't worry, I am not after your husband, I have a boyfriend." and then pretty soon after that was telling me all about its horrible motorcycle accident and how it suffers from it all the time and can't work because of it. Yeah, I felt sorry for it.

OW uses it to manipulate everyone, it seems, as it had a rant about that, too, on its FB page.

This is another gem of its that it posted recently. Someone once asked me how I hold my head up so high after all I have been through. I said, it's because no matter what, I am a survivor. Not a victim. Yet, most everything it posts personally itself about itself is all about what a victim it is.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 10:08 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 5:01 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

seem to loose touch with people

So does that mean she has run out of people to have affairs with?

Oh poor wittle baby.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1379 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Blobette
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Default  Posted: 5:55 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How does she hold her head so high? Probably because she's a delusional, rug-sweeping idiot who's in denial of how her behavior has... Consequences! (Who knew?)

SMH.


BS (me): 50
WS: 50
Married: 26 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1061 | Registered: Aug 2012
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh dear. I hate these pity party FB posts. I really do.

Whether it is male or female I always think "Dude, show your dick some respect!!".

Post things because you want to. Don't post anything for her benefit or to get a reaction out of her, SM. She is not important - to anyone it seems. Least of all to you.

I'm already having a chuckle at all of the OWs - something like this would send me over the chuckle-edge.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5657 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Slightly off topic - just wanted to say that I LOVE how you always refer to OW as "it" ... takes away OW's humanity. Good stuff.

And its post screams "I need a grammar, spelling and punctuation lesson. NOW."


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 3 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5145 | Registered: May 2007
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You make me smile SMS

You just make me smile....


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3858 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
stirke3
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Default  Posted: 8:40 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wife said cheating with OM was like a drug, did it three times in 20 years marrage...I dont understand


strike 3

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