Little does he or his lawyer know, we have proof to refute tons of that crap!!
Some funny parts? My lawyer's questions to the POS that he couldn't answer, such as, what grade are the kids going to into, what are their teacher's names, who is their pediatrician, who is their dentist... He couldn't answer a single damn one, lol.
He also admitted that I handle all their appointments, parent/teacher conferences, glasses, etc., and that he hasn't been to a single one.
He also admitted that I was a great mom!
He did get super snippy when handed mounds of texts and emails showing him disparaging me, my family, and involving the kids. My L asked if he had an anger problem, to which he replied, "No." And then when shoving one of the papers back at my L, he asked again if he had an anger problem, and STBX said, "Whatever."
Even the court reporter was giving me surprised looks!!
My very favorite part? After POS refused to let DS9 join us for my couple hours with DS6 for his birthday last night (saying DS9 was begging not to go), my L asked him, "Do you know how to encourage a good relationship between the kids and Butterfly?" POS stammered and asked him to repeat the question, which my L did, and STBX said, "I guess not."
LOLOLOLOL. I can't WAIT for court in 2 weeks!! I better not get overconfident, but this POS is hanging himself with his own rope. There's nothing like trying to figure out how he hits himself with the karma bus while driving it at the same time
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
He also admitted that I was a great mom!
I hope you never doubted that!
this POS is hanging himself with his own rope
That is the one constant with these idiots, and they always look oh so surprised when it happens!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet
How do you not know what grade your children are in?! That alone says so much about the level of involvement he has with his children.
Your lawyer was probably thinking, "Wow, love a deposition where I'm shooting fish in a barrel."
Um...he doesn't know what grade the kids are in? Holy pathetic piece of shit.
I know right??? Holy shit!!! I knew he was bad, I didn't know he was THAT bad!!!
1-The wheels of justice grind slowly.
2-If you give a WS enough rope. They always hang themselves.
Good job and enjoy the show.
^^THIS! I will never ever cease to be amazed at how uninvolved these sacks of shits can be in their own children's lives. Never.
Don't you just love it when they show their arse? Enjoy the show BG!!
The sad clown was sitting in a room of 3 women and one man (my L) looking like the biggest pissweak scumbag on the planet. My L said "OMG - did you see how red his ears were??". Yeah - he no likey when he is exposed for the coward scumbag that he is.
It made having to see his fugly mug almost worth it.
Squirm little parasite - squirm!
The only thing he had filled out was the kids names and even that he misspelled.
It is what it is.
The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed
Perhaps that's why I'm glad he's stuck to his bullshit until now
He even denied ever sticking their heads in the toilet, which the dumb fuck admitted to doing to all the children to me in text..
I married a real idiot y'all. I was never happy about until now.. Hee hee
Oh, and he denied having a pension plan too, which his job already sent proof of
[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 9:29 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]
What did happen, though, was STBX lying right there on the witness stand in front of the judge during our trial as well as lying on his paperwork/budget submitted to the court to justify why he shouldn't have to pay me much SS/CS. He also lied to the parenting evaluator. Apparently that didn't matter. Even though I had lots of documentation & reports to prove his lies, nothing at all has ever come of his lies, and my L tells me nothing will.
Just warning you...
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
One thing he admitted to was lowering his hours to be able to watch the children, which is a big no-no. No wonder the POS is on his fourth financial affidavit. He's not allowed to do that..
He even lied about that before anyway, saying he didn't work 2 of the 3 days a week he had them, when really it was slut-bag watching them, which the time stamps from his employer will prove..
He likes to constantly text me how abusive and violent I am, lol, and he denied me being any of that in the deposition.. Hey, look, he finally told the truth on something!
Since DCF only found "inappropriateness," I don't think there's any way he will not be allowed any custody, but he's proven time and again that he's a totally irresponsible parent, completely incapable of taking care of the medical, dental, schooling, counseling, anything. My L and I are mostly fighting for some type of EOW schedule instead of 50/50, and I think we have tons of enough evidence to prove that's all he should have.. I couldn't even list it all here for fear of boring you all..
Oh, and ignoring MOW isn't working. After our text war a couple days ago, now she's taking to bashing me for the last couple days, I would guess about 100 texts so far, which I have completely ignored. Her head is so far up her ass, it's ridiculous.. Like I'm really jealous bitch. Like you're so great and that's why he left me for you. I LEFT HIM DUMBASS. HE DIDN'T "CHOOSE" YOU. YOU ARE EATING MY LEFTOVERS!!!