EX is taking the boys to his parents cabin about 1200 miles and 5 states away. He invited me to go.
Reasons I am leaning toward going:
I don't want to be away from the boys for 10 days.
I will be worried, especially since they will be out of phone range during a large part of the trip
The activities they are going on will be for the first time, and I'd like to be there with them.
EX has been having some health problems and I worry about him being alone with the kids in case something happens. (so far the test results have been normal, but he definately has something going on with his heart beat).
Reasons I don't want to go:
Triggers! He never liked going on family vacations and ruined them to the point I stopped planning them.
EX in-laws, who treated me poorly, incredibly poorly, will be there
It's a long trip and I have a lot of work, but I still need to take the time off before I loose it.