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sunsetslost (original poster member #39885) posted at 2:16 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
I slept through the night for the first time since D Day (July 13th) I had a bit of a setback as our dog had to be put down down yesterday and we had an emotional day. I fell into that trap and got kicked in the balls. She is off with OM and seems to have no interest in us. I have a new resolve to not get sucked back in unless she meets all requirements of R. For the first time I'm not sure if I even want to pursue R given the way she's treated me and flaunted the A in my face. I'm still not eating much. But the whole night of restful uninterrupted sleep has given me strength today.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
toomanyregrets ( member #37740) posted at 4:10 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
I'm afraid it's time to move on.
Your WW has no regard for you or your M, fog or no fog.
As for being unhappy, it's just an excuse.
Your appetite will return once the shock wears off.
[This message edited by toomanyregrets at 10:11 AM, July 25th (Thursday)]
BH - 66 - Retired
fWW - 62
"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife
"Regret is when you realize you broke your own heart.
Remorse is when you realize you broke someone else's." - Bla
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:21 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
I'm so glad that you got some rest. My sincere condolences about the loss of your dog.
If such am emotional event as your joint dog's passing hasn't gotten her head out of her neither regions, I have to agree with toomanyregrets. It's time to see that laywer and file. You are not her sloppy seconds. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 7:24 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013
Glad that you got a restful sleep. Insomnia is awful and plagued me for a while after dday. It just drains you. I hope you can stay strong and not get sucked back in to her drama. Sorry about the loss of your pet. (((sunsetslost)))
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
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