I found E mails, from my former wife, signed by her , in her hand writing, detailing times and places of sex with several of her affair partners, presented them to her, IN THERAPY, with a trained therapist, and she denied it all! The denial doesn't get any thicker than that! Unbelievable! Seven years later, and I'm still trying to get my life back, my ability to trust back, and I'm trying to let down the very solid wall around me to the emotions that i feel. It is a journey, but we need to remember that THEY did it, we did not do it, and it makes no sense at all, in any realm of possibilities.
" Denial is not just a river in Egypt"- there is no sense to be made of a non sensical situation.
Take care of yourself, find happiness for yourself, and don't get emmeshed in his insanity.
[This message edited by james60 at 10:58 AM, July 24th (Wednesday)]