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AnotherTry posted 7/24/2013 14:46 PM

I was really impressed with this video/article. I'm glad it was advertised so this wonderful site can help others!!

Deeply Scared posted 7/24/2013 14:48 PM

And over 400 comments about what a slut I am

deeplysad posted 7/24/2013 14:49 PM

What is the link?

wanttogoforward posted 7/24/2013 14:56 PM

It's in the divorce section.... anyway those on there bashing your H for staying have never walked a day in any of our shoes! It's so easy before these events happen to us to sit in judgement of what our morals and values tell us to do ... and then it happens to us and we have to face it head on... there are no easy choices in life and I commend anyone who makes the changes necessary in their life to become a better person and spouse... and to go forward and help so many of us is definitely appreciated by all of us here... I guess the moral of the story here is who are we to judge unless we have walked in those shoes?....

Threnody posted 7/24/2013 14:59 PM

The comments are coming from those who haven't seen a wayward or OW who've shown remorse. It's as simple as that. I think anyone who has seen a wayward make healthy changes would not be wasting time bashing.

Deeply Scared posted 7/24/2013 15:00 PM

Oh I could give a shit what they think about me...I'm just thrilled SI is getting so much exposure

StillGoing posted 7/24/2013 15:09 PM

YOu mean this idiot is still married to and living with her! Do what I did. Kick her out the door with all her belongs and good riddance of bad rubbish and don't think twice about it.

YEAH BRO YEAH, DUDE, BRO, YEA U TELL THAT INTERNET MAN YOU TELL IT HOW TO BE STRONG AND SHIT

ETA:

Sorry, my capslock isn't stuck, I was typing in snarkasm mode.

[This message edited by StillGoing at 3:13 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]

Holly-Isis posted 7/24/2013 15:14 PM

I could only make it through two pages of comments. Most of these people are either ignorant about infidelity (and should be praying such pain never happens to them) or WSs trying to cover their tracks by being blustering fools.

I had to laugh at the comment that this wasn't an article...it was an ad for SI. Because MH and DS earn so much from the FREE they provide.

There were a few more that had me SMH over their ridiculousness.

I wish I never needed SI, but I'm glad it existed. Otherwise, I would've been alone in this since '06 and accepted much worse treatment than I have...my experience in '99 is testament to that.

stilllovinghim posted 7/24/2013 15:17 PM

@SG

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 7/24/2013 15:18 PM

Please don't make me read ALL of the articles trying to find it!! Where is it??

naivewife posted 7/24/2013 15:19 PM

link?

20WrongsVs1 posted 7/24/2013 15:24 PM

I reckon if DS wanted a link here she woulda posted it, so I won't. Just go to HP and type "survivinginfidelity" in the search box at the top.

What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.

Faithful w/Love posted 7/24/2013 15:27 PM

I love you DS and they don't know you and most likely scared to check us out. It might make them think they will be struck by the infidelity plage.

You are wonderful and they don't know your whole story. And for the people who called you names and your BS. Well, they are no saints.

StillGoing posted 7/24/2013 15:28 PM

What I love are the comments about "killing trees," because of MH printing out all the emails.

I didn't even see those. WTF do they think powers their computers that they're using to gossip and judge other people, the distilled essence of tormented gelflings? Dumbasses.

hurtbs posted 7/24/2013 15:29 PM

DS - I'm glad you don't care, but it bothers me!

SuperDuperWonderboy posted 7/24/2013 15:30 PM

Sometimes I forget that the internetz are full of trolls and a-holes. Then I read a comments section of almost any article, and am reminded why I only post on SI.

Deeply Scared posted 7/24/2013 15:31 PM

This is why SI is the best infidelity forum on the internet...because of all of you

nowiknow23 posted 7/24/2013 15:32 PM

the distilled essence of tormented gelflings?

naivewife posted 7/24/2013 15:32 PM

Wow, the comments are crazy, but I get it. It's amazing what you'll think/say before it happens to you. I guess it's the same way with everything. Childless people are always the experts on child raising too!

Jennifer99 posted 7/24/2013 15:39 PM

I wish I had time to troll around the internets all day making ridiculous comments about things I know nothing.....

oh, wait, that was me in my 20s.

WTF - I was thinking the same thing after a cnn article today - the comments...Who are these people?

How about DO something with your time.

I'd much rather be creating something or supporting something or helping someone than spending time on a bb for SI but at least my time here is productive and helpful to my sanity.

WHAT purpose do troll commenters have?

Of course I'm not spending any $$ on how my ho-ha looks either - I wonder how many starving people a labiaplasty could feed? It took 40 years of living for me to understand that *I* am weird and no one thinks like I do or if they come close they are weird too but I don't think another 40 years would help me understand wtf some people are thinking/choosing to commit their time/$/energy to.