BH Cee64D - 50
Perhaps his next step will be to read the posts here. You know, just lurk for a while. He'll get insight and advice even if it's not specifically aimed at him, KWIM? It's good that he's open to reading so perhaps I can recommend a book for him. How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair by Linda MacDonald. Since he's not much of a reader, this would be an edcellent one for him. It's short and to the point, about 100 pages. It's basically "Here's what you did, this is how your BS feels and this is what to do to fix it."
I hope your WH continues on this path and does what he needs to do to help you heal and fix himself.
FWW (me) - 51
All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.