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User Topic: Deeply Sacred t/j HuffPo
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you notice how I "misspelled" DSs name up there?

I've been on SI about 18 months now. I don't post much, but I'm here, every single day. I would not have survived the dissolution of one life and the birth of another without SI.

So, it's weirdly appropriate that it was about a YEAR before I noticed that DSs name was Deeply SCARED...not Deeply SACRED, as I had been reading it!

Even though I know better now...and yes, I deserve a thump upside my head for not realizing earlier, duh....I still use Deeply Sacred in my heart.

Because SI is so deeply sacred to me, and firmly lodged in my heart. Even though my marriage failed, it has been so uplifting to read the stories of those who reconcile and those who try. It has simply given me hope. Add that to the support we all give each other, whether BSs or WSs, and I'd say this is a pretty sacred corner of the Internet.

Eta: Just had to write this after seeing the HuffPo article and reading the comments....

[This message edited by SadMad2012 at 7:16 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been here since January. Read it as Deeply Scarred until a couple of weeks ago.

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still use Deeply Sacred in my heart.

There are many of us who feel this way about her. She is a sweetheart and I absolutely adore her. She is one of the best people I know.


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

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uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absofuckinglutely, lieshurt!


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


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heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I watched the video/read the interview and am so impressed at the courage and humility and candidness of DS and her willingness to share her and MH's story to help others. Wow. You two are awesome.


Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

We remarried in 2014.


Posts: 2318 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
wincing_at_light
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Agree with lieshurt, too.

DS personifies the grace, perseverance, and kindness that I hope my kids will find in their adult lives.

And that MH isn't so bad, either.


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And that MH isn't so bad, either

MH is fabulous. They are so cute together too. When I walk into their home, it feels like coming home to me or at least the type of home I wished I could have come home to. It's filled with warmth, graciousness, good food, good drink and so much laughter and support.


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 8:00 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Agree with lieshurt, too.
DS personifies the grace, perseverance, and kindness that I hope my kids will find in their adult lives.

And that MH isn't so bad, either.

Very definitely


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37621 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, you all are just too kind...thank you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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