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Douchebagfree posted 7/24/2013 21:09 PM

So it's been over a month since the house sold. I told douchebag that the lawyer would keep the proceeds from the sale of the house until the divorce is final.
I have not heard a peep from him. The Twinkie is giving birth next month so you'd think he'd need the money.
I'd get the ball rolling but the only way we can get a quick divorce is if he agrees that it's because of his infidelity. He still denies anything was going on before I asked him to move out
Umm seriously. You moved out the first week of November and she is giving birth next month. I'm no genius, but that's pretty simple math.

Why do you guys think he's not moving this along?

homewrecked2011 posted 7/24/2013 21:53 PM

He thinks you need the money, so he is dragging his feet. If you just blow it off, he'll suddenly be asking you every day for the money.....

I hate dealing with these types of people.!!!

gma56 posted 7/24/2013 23:56 PM

Are they having the state pay for the birth ? He may not want to show any capitol gains until after the birth.
I just heard something similar with another BS.

I'd get the ball rolling but the only way we can get a quick divorce is if he agrees that it's because of his infidelity. He still denies anything was going on before I asked him to move out
This might be why he isn't moving on it. And you damn well know it's ALL your fault he doesn't have the money.

[This message edited by gma56 at 12:02 AM, July 25th (Thursday)]

movingforward13 posted 7/25/2013 09:02 AM

Fuck him, keep the money and make some interest off of it.

movingforward13 posted 7/25/2013 09:03 AM

Before you have to pay him I mean. He doesn't ask for it. Oh well.

And of course he doesn't want a quick divorce. You are his soft place to land when shit doesn't go right with them. And trust me, after "new baby" feelings wear off, those days will be coming in abundance.

movingforward13 posted 7/25/2013 09:04 AM

I bet he will come around asking for the money when shit doesn't go right between them. He is using the money as a way to maintain contact with you.

Douchebagfree posted 7/30/2013 18:20 PM

Other than the actual divorce this is the last tie that I have to him so I'd really like to get it resolved as quick as possible but it doesn't look like that's going to happen.
I had to email him some final bills for the house today and there was no mention of anything divorce related. Oh well, guess I'll have to wait it out and see what happens.

Thanks ladies. I can always count on you for some good advice and some eye openers.

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