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i called for a mc break

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PricklePatch posted 7/25/2013 02:32 AM

I have had a hard time finding an if who I feel good about. Over the last few months I have realized my wh cognitive function prevents certain things like follow through and he gets trapped in his head. Prior to d day I was ok with it to an extent, now I am impatient and angry. He has high functioning abergers Ann adhd. I told him after thinking this through, we need a break in Mc and I need IC to learn to cope with his disability. I asked him to work with his IC. He agreed the McCain agreed to see me as an IC, which my what agreed to. Especially when I explained my suicidal dreams are really intense right now. We both have foo issues and I have had to break off and limit relations with my dad and sister, due to my sister's toxic behavior. Wh was my safe haven and h took that away d day. We couldn't afford to both be in therapy and I felt strong enough to go forward now I know he has behaviours that he can not fix I need this. He has no other person as support but me, I do have a support group.

MovingUpward posted 7/25/2013 10:27 AM

It looks like autocorrect might have made your post difficult to understand. I did make out that you are going to IC which is really good based on your suicidal dreams. There isn't a good way for you to help him until you are strong enough.

nowiknow23 posted 7/25/2013 11:49 AM

I think that's a great plan, PricklePatch. Fix the flat tires before you start trying to get the bike moving again, so to speak.

Sending you strength, honey.

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