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So.... saw/heard through the grapevine...

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hurtbs posted 7/25/2013 18:19 PM

Came across a photo of him and some details through our shared social network (first time in almost a year).

In the photo he has gained a ton of weight - 20-30 pounds. He was already carrying an extra 20-30 lbs to begin with... He's also wearing a shirt we got on our vacation overseas (a cheap local t-shirt).

He didn't marry OW2 (the crank whore that tried to get me arrested). He's got a new "soul-mate" but he's also active on online dating... (he hit on a friend of mine on Match a couple of weeks ago).

So he's behaving the same way but got a new victim, I mean girlfriend.... and he's looking worse than ever.

That probably sounds petty of me, but I'm going to enjoy it. I know tha I'll probably gain some weight and will definitely age, but I know I won't be trolling online dating while leading some poor sap on and abusing my partner.

momentintime posted 7/25/2013 18:41 PM

His is an empty life. Enjoy your freedom.

traicionada posted 7/25/2013 19:21 PM

You're so much better off without his pathetic self holding you back If you catch yourself grinning like a crazy one today or tomorrow it is because you & the furbabies are finally living the life y'all deserved all along

hurtbs posted 7/25/2013 19:45 PM

You're so much better off without his pathetic self holding you back

Oh I realized that long ago!

There's also that slight reassurance that his behavior and character are really not about me, he just switches out partners...

hurtbs posted 7/26/2013 08:45 AM

Oh and he got fired from his job. He got fired from his last job for sexual harassment (lied to me about it). I don't know why he lost this job this time around but I can guess. Let's just say it's the type of job you have to actively lose; meaning you don't get fired for personality conflicts or even being kind of blase at it. You have to do something egregiously wrong.

nutmegkitty posted 7/26/2013 12:52 PM

There's also that slight reassurance that his behavior and character are really not about me, he just switches out partners...

Amen. this is a really important realization.

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