She just recently found out about you cheating, and she isn't handling well enough, fast enough, and HER reactions are rendering your lives a nightmare.. Think about that for a minute.
Your actions blew her world up and you are tapping your watch and wanting her to heal like you think she should and accept it, be good with it and move on.....Wow.
My friend, you crushed her. And I'm sure you want it to go away. it's hard to look at the damage you caused..I've been there. But your focus she be about her healing, you have to remember something. She never asked for or wanted any of this! You poured this shit on her. You have to be the
Proactive one to help her clean it up. And guess what, you are going to get shit all over you. I know that when she is aggressive and hating you and telling how crappy you are that it gets frustrating. This is when you dig in and show her you are here for her. You are still worrying about your
Discomfort- there is no shortcut. You are going to have to go over and over the heat wrenching details, when she asks something-elaborate(kindly), I wish I would have done this. The only one not talking about it helps is you.
This is your wife and she is hurting. Remember that
[This message edited by Apple3point14 at 9:34 AM, July 26th (Friday)]