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thisisnoteasy (original poster new member #35129) posted at 4:55 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
I cannot believe it's already been 2 years since D-day. I really don't have much to say other than things are going great. I still trigger, but maybe a little less than before. We were sitting on the patio at a friends last night when the song "I will wait for you" came on. My wife leaned over to me and quietly sang along with the lyric "You forgave, and I won't forget" -- unprompted, out of the blue. Hit me like a ton of bricks (in a good way). Couldn't have come at a better time. 20th wedding anniversary in September, and we finally feel like we are the couple we always hoped we would be. Thanks for listening.
ME: BH - 45
Her:FWS - 44
Dday - End of July 2011
3 Kids - 15,16,19- Married
20 years (together for 25 yrs)
9/4/13 -- found out they have had some texting and phone conversations 2 years into R.
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 5:03 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 5:06 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Congrats to you and your wife for reaching this milestone.
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
Bikingguy ( member #38103) posted at 5:27 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
Thank you for the updated. Most only post when they are down - I do also. And congrats on the 20th anniversary.
Our 17th anniversary is coming up and WW asked if I even want to do anything. Last month (5 months since d day) attended a wedding and the ceremony was horrible for me. But we plan on taking a trip neither of us have been to and I think this will help create new memories.
Also for our 20th we have talked about a trip to Italy. It's 3 years away but something to look forward to!
Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013
UndecidedinMA ( member #33732) posted at 8:24 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013
ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R
Patchy ( member #39228) posted at 5:50 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
It's so good to read happy ending stories. Maybe "happy" isn't quite the right word, but I look forward to the time I can come back on this site and encourage others with something like what you shared.
Thanks for taking the time to do this.
Me BS 44
Him FWS 45
Married 23 Years
DDay 1 July 2012
DDay 2 Christmas Day 2013 same woman
EA with kissing, very strong bond and talk of leaving spouses for each other.
Thiscantbhapning ( new member #39601) posted at 5:55 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
It's so nice to hear a positive R story. Congratulations!
BS (Me)-48
WH-49
COW-28
PA-5 1/2 months
D-Day 5-8-11 (Happy Mother's Day to me)
Married 26 years
DS-24
DD-22
Trying to R
"Maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up."
petite71 ( member #36475) posted at 6:20 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013
Thanks for sharing 
1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
BS(me):41
WS(Husband):40
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr
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