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BeyondBreaking posted 7/26/2013 13:54 PM

As some of you know, my ex's family and I had a TERRIBLE relationship. His stepmother is a bipoler monster (not kidding, she turns into a green raging maniac when she is upset) and constantly flew off the handle at me when DD's dad and I were together- called me names, insulted me and my parents, and even went as far as to say DD was not part of her family because she was related to me. In addition, she knew about DD's dad cheating and hid it from me for months. She is just a disgusting POS and I ended up telling her where to shove it, that she was never allowed to speak to me ever again, and blocked her from e-mail and from calling me.

It has been 4 glorious years since I spoke to her. And what did she do? She invented a brand new e-mail address JUST to e-mail me and let me know that DD's dad told her I am getting married soon, and she is shocked that someone would want to marry me.

Half of me wants to respond and just really let her have it.

Instead, I had my lawyer send her a letter warning her against future harassment.

Best money I ever spent. Further confirmation right before my wedding that leaving DD's dad and his three ring circus family. LOVE IT!!!

Everyone have a happy day and a glorious weekend! :)

jo2love posted 7/26/2013 19:54 PM

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She11ybeanz posted 7/26/2013 20:06 PM

That's awesome girlie!!! Good for you for keeping up NC while still getting your point across!! YAY!!!

Congrats on your upcoming wedding!!!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 8:06 PM, July 26th (Friday)]

Williesmom posted 7/26/2013 20:11 PM

That is awesome. Congrats on the upcoming wedding.

caregiver9000 posted 7/26/2013 22:33 PM

What a hateful bitch!

And congratulations on finding someone who wants to marry you!

persevere posted 7/27/2013 01:07 AM

Way to take control from an obvious control freak! :-). Now put the crazy behind you and focus on what truly matters!!! 😘

ExposedNiblet posted 7/27/2013 01:23 AM

Yes!!!

You handled that wonderfully!

lostmommy posted 7/27/2013 09:33 AM

Holy crazy woman, batman! Glad you're away from the nonsense. Best of luck to you with your new marriage!

Chrysalis123 posted 7/27/2013 10:46 AM

Way to go!

little turtle posted 7/27/2013 12:22 PM

I love the way you handled this.

better4me posted 7/27/2013 13:58 PM

some people are CRAZY. You managed it well!!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!

burnt_toast posted 7/27/2013 19:08 PM

Whenever I ran into gratuitously hateful or mean people, my grandfather would tell me not to worry, that they would eventually die from a bad heart. Wise man.

You did the right thing.