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New Beginnings :
Ugh...Just ugh!!!

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 BeyondBreaking (original poster member #38020) posted at 7:54 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

As some of you know, my ex's family and I had a TERRIBLE relationship. His stepmother is a bipoler monster (not kidding, she turns into a green raging maniac when she is upset) and constantly flew off the handle at me when DD's dad and I were together- called me names, insulted me and my parents, and even went as far as to say DD was not part of her family because she was related to me. In addition, she knew about DD's dad cheating and hid it from me for months. She is just a disgusting POS and I ended up telling her where to shove it, that she was never allowed to speak to me ever again, and blocked her from e-mail and from calling me.

It has been 4 glorious years since I spoke to her. And what did she do? She invented a brand new e-mail address JUST to e-mail me and let me know that DD's dad told her I am getting married soon, and she is shocked that someone would want to marry me.

Half of me wants to respond and just really let her have it.

Instead, I had my lawyer send her a letter warning her against future harassment.

Best money I ever spent. Further confirmation right before my wedding that leaving DD's dad and his three ring circus family. LOVE IT!!!

Everyone have a happy day and a glorious weekend! :)

I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:54 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

bump

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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 2:06 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

That's awesome girlie!!! Good for you for keeping up NC while still getting your point across!! YAY!!!

Congrats on your upcoming wedding!!!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 8:06 PM, July 26th (Friday)]

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:11 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

That is awesome. Congrats on the upcoming wedding.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 4:33 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

What a hateful bitch!

And congratulations on finding someone who wants to marry you!

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 7:07 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

Way to take control from an obvious control freak! :-). Now put the crazy behind you and focus on what truly matters!!! 😘

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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ExposedNiblet ( member #30803) posted at 7:23 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

Yes!!!

You handled that wonderfully!

Divorced and happy.

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lostmommy ( member #33440) posted at 3:33 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

Holy crazy woman, batman! Glad you're away from the nonsense. Best of luck to you with your new marriage!

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:46 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

Way to go!

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:22 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

I love the way you handled this.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 7:58 PM on Saturday, July 27th, 2013

some people are CRAZY. You managed it well!!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

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burnt_toast ( member #16891) posted at 1:08 AM on Sunday, July 28th, 2013

Whenever I ran into gratuitously hateful or mean people, my grandfather would tell me not to worry, that they would eventually die from a bad heart. Wise man.

You did the right thing.

I may have not gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams

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