I met my AP through an activity that my DD21 was involved in when she was in HS. It's an activity that my two youngest kids also enjoy and that I have coached them both in.
The AP is no longer involved in any age group that would include any of my kids. His kid is 5 years younger than my youngest and he may be involved at that level, I have no idea really. He stepped down from involvement other than with his kid after his dday. I did the same.
My DD14 is starting HS and has said that she doesn't want to be involved any more. I was glad to hear it as the activity is a trigger for BH (understandably).
She just announced out of the blue that she wants to play after all. Then DS9 stared talking about how it is his "thing"and he loves it more than anything.
I just mentioned to BH last night that it's almost time to sign up for the Fall and he said he would prefer if DS doesn't play...
Now DD has announced she wants to play and BH is obviously very upset. We haven't had a chance to talk yet as the announcement occurred while we are driving to go to a party for DS'.
Please help me not screw this up. I want to support my BH. I know my kids may have consequences because of my horrible choices but we live in a small town and there is not much going on here for them. How can I explain it to them if we aren't letting them play?
[This message edited by knightsbff at 4:43 PM, July 26th (Friday)]
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs
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