Seriously, it makes me feel better to watch him change my son's poopy diapers when I'm angry. Or clean toilets.
I think these are two great ideas!
Have you two talked about acts of service being your love language? Is he willing to do your love language? If so, maybe make a small list easily available to him with things that would make you feel good if he did. Sort of like a "Honey-Do Trigger List." Maybe a little cheesy, but whatever works.
I feel you on the touch thing, but I'm a little more whishy washy. I have times I do and times I don't want to be touched when I'm triggering. So, KB has a bit on his hands.
Hang in there.
**Edit - I had the same idea as a guide! Sweet.
[This message edited by HeartInADustpan at 5:32 PM, July 26th (Friday)]