I'm also struggling after finding out my husband paid to have webcam sex with another woman. It seriously disgusts me and even though I've tried to move on and let it go, I can't. Especially when I find $1,000 hidden in his closet like I did today. Makes me super suspicious that he's buying prepaid credit cards so it won't show up on our account. I'm so tempted to call him out on it, but I've decided to try and hold my tongue while I collect more information via a keylogger. Plus my husband gets it almost every night
so there's NO reason why he should need anything more.