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User Topic: Next to me
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Helpless  Posted: 7:56 PM, July 26th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the Emeli Sande song thats pretty popular i have to say i love it though it makes me pretty sad because thats what i HAD and though it was one slip its all it took to make me my world crash and burn . no i look at it like its a song to GOD that hes next to me and well the makes my heart feel good for the moment , WH hears it and i can tell he wishes that he could be that for me the its happened and well nothing will change it .

beautiful song though lucky lady if she is talking about her husband . anyone who has somebody who is with someone who can voice theyre concerns and speak honestly about their happiness is very lucky somebody that doesnt have to del with what we are dealing with is very lucky .

makes me sad that i have two small daughters who 9 times out of 10 will feel this pain at some point in their lives and my WH wont be able to say much about it and that will be the day my heart breaks in pieces again i fear for them .



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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, July 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


We have 3 girls and I asked WS how he would feel if some guy broke their hearts like he did mine. He said he would want to kill them. Lucky for him my dad is a nice guy. :). WS said the other day he just wants his girls to be nuns. Too bad we aren't catholic.

Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

Filed for divorce 5/8/15

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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, July 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have three girls too. It breaks my heart to think this might happen to them. What will we say, how can we be there for them? Sometimes I really hate how the A has robbed me of the last innocence I had left. My eyes are open now to how much even good people hurt each other. What a terrible waste.

Love that song though

BS - 36 (me)
WH - 34

D-Day 19 April 2012
Trying R

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